9. And of what kind she ought to be who is
chosen the description is given in the words of the teacher
himself: “Not less than threescore years old, having been
the wife of one man.” 1 Tim. v. 9. Not
that old age alone makes the widow, The rule of
St. Paul as to age was not always strictly observed after early days,
though probably so in the experience of St. Ambrose, though the
Benedictine Editors think that he did not uphold the restriction, but
it is spoken of in the Exhort. Virginitatis, § 25, where
Juliana of Bononia speaks of herself as “adhuc immaturam
viduitatis stipendiis,” not yet old enough to receive
widow’s pay. See Dict. Chr Antiq., art.
Widows. but that
the merits of the widow are the duties of old age. For she
certainly is the more noble who represses the heat of youth, and the
impetuous ardour of youthful age, desiring neither the tenderness of a
husband, nor the abundant delights of children, rather than one who,
now worn out in body, cold in age, of ripe years, can neither grow warm
with pleasures, nor hope for offspring.