am I to do this one, and when the other? lest I ‘reprove between me and him alone,’ when
I ought to ‘reprove before all;’ or ‘reprove before all,’ when I ought to reprove in secret.”
10. You will soon see, Beloved, what we ought to do, and when; only I would we may
not be slow to practise it. Attend and see: “If thy brother sin against thee, rebuke him between
him and thee alone.” Why? Because it is against thee that he hath sinned. What is that, “hath
sinned against thee”? Thou knowest that he hath sinned. For because it was secret when he
sinned against thee, seek for secresy, when thou dost correct his sin. For if thou only know
that he hath sinned against thee, and thou wouldest “rebuke him before all,” thou art not a
reprover, but a betrayer. Consider how that “just man” Joseph spared his wife with such
exceeding kindness, in so great a crime as he had suspected her of, before he knew by whom
she had conceived; because he perceived that she was with child, and he knew that he had
not come in unto her. There remained then an unavoidable2748 suspicion of adultery, and
yet because he only had perceived, he only knew it, what does the Gospel say of him? “Then
Joseph being a just man, and not willing to make her a public example.”2749 The husband’s
grief sought no revenge; he wished to profit, not to punish the sinner. “And not willing to
make her a public example, he was minded to put her away privily.” But while he thought
on these things, “behold, the Angel of the Lord appeared unto him,”2750 in sleep; and told
him how it was, that she had not defiled her husband’s bed, but that she had conceived of
the Holy Ghost the Lord of them both. Thy brother then hath sinned against thee; if thou
alone know it, then hath he really sinned against thee alone. For if in the hearing of many
he hath done thee an injury, he hath sinned against them also whom he hath made witnesses
of his iniquity. For I tell you, my dearly beloved Brethren, what you can yourselves recognise
in your own case. When any one does my brother an injury in my hearing, God forbid that
I should think that injury unconnected with myself. Certainly he has done it to me also; yea
to me the rather, to whom he thought what he did was pleasing. Therefore those sins are to
be reproved before all, which are committed before all; they are to be reproved with more
secresy, which are committed more secretly. Distinguish times, and Scripture is in harmony
with itself.
11. So let us act; and so must we act not only when the sin is committed against ourselves,
but when the sin is so committed by any one as that it is unknown by the other. In secret
ought we to rebuke, in secret to reprove him; lest if we would reprove him publicly, we
should betray the man. We wish to rebuke and reform him; but what if his enemy is looking
out to hear something that he may punish? For example, a Bishop knows of some one who
has killed another, and no one else knows of him. I wish to reprove him publicly; but thou
2748 Certa.
2749 Matt. i. 19.
2750 Matt. i. 20.
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