longer ruler.334 Perceive ye how great is the power of Christ’s coming? how He dissolved
the curse? For indeed there are more virgins than before among women, there is more
modesty in those virgins, and there are more widows. No woman would lightly utter so
much as an unseemly word. Wherefore then, tell me, dost thou use filthy speech? For tell
me not that they were virgins in despondency or despair.
The sex is fond of ornament, and it has this failing. Yet even in this you husbands surpass
them, who pride yourselves even upon them, as your own proper ornament; for I do not
think that the wife is so ostentatious of her own jewels, as the husband is of those of his wife.
He is not so proud of his own golden girdle, as he is of his wife’s wearing jewels of gold. So
that even of this you are the causes, who light the spark and kindle up the flame. But what
is more, it is not so great a sin in a woman as in a man. Thou art ordained to regulate her;
in every way thou claimest to have the preëminence. Show her then in this also, that thou
takest no interest in this costliness of hers, by thine own apparel. It is more suitable for a
woman to adorn herself, than for a man. If then thou escape not the temptation, how shall
she escape it? They have moreover their share of vainglory, but this is common to them
with men. They are in a measure passionate, and this again is common to them with men.
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But as to those things wherein they excel, these are no longer common to them with men;
their sanctity, I mean, their fervency, their devotion, their love towards Christ. Wherefore
then, one may say, did Paul exclude them from the teacher’s seat? And here again is a proof
how great a distance they were from the men, and that the women of those days were great.
For, tell me, while Paul was teaching, or Peter, or those saints of old, had it been right that
a woman should intrude into the office? Whereas we have gone on till we have come so
debased, that it is worthy of question, why women are not teachers. So truly have we come
to the same weakness as they. These things I have said not from any desire to elate them,
but to shame ourselves, to chastise, and to admonish us, that so we may resume the authority
that belongs to us, not inasmuch as we are greater in size, but because of our foresight, our
protection of them, and our virtue. For thus shall the body also be in the order which befits
it, when it has the best head to rule. And God grant that all, both wives and husbands, may
live according to His good pleasure, that we may all in that terrible day be counted worthy
to enjoy the lovingkindness of our Master, and to attain those good things which are
promised in Jesus Christ our Lord, with whom to the Father, together with the Holy Ghost,
be glory, might, and honor, now and forever and ever. Amen.
334 [Compare Carlyle’s lecture on Cromwell and Napoleon in Heroes and Hero-Worship.—G.A.]
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