Chapter II.
The life of Mary is set before virgins as an example,
and her many virtues are dwelt upon, her chastity, humility, hard life,
love of retirement, and the like; then her kindness to others, her zeal
in learning, and love of frequenting the temple. St. Ambrose then
sets forth how she, adorned with all these virtues, will come to meet
the numberless bands of virgins and lead them with great triumph to the
bridal chamber of the Spouse.
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Let
, then, the
life of Mary be as it were virginity itself, set forth in a likeness,
from which, as from a mirror, the appearance of chastity and the form
of virtue is reflected. From this you may take your pattern of
life, showing, as an example, the clear rules of virtue: what you
have to correct, to effect, and to hold fast.
7. The first thing which kindles ardour in
learning is the greatness of the teacher. What is greater than
the Mother of God? What more glorious than she whom Glory Itself
chose? What more chaste than she who bore a body without contact
with another body? For why should I speak of her other
virtues? She was a virgin not only in body but also in mind, who
stained the sincerity of its disposition by no guile, who was humble in
heart, grave in speech, prudent in mind, sparing of words, studious in
reading, resting her hope not on uncertain riches, but on the prayer of
the poor, intent on work, modest in discourse; wont to seek not man but
God as the judge of her thoughts, to injure no one, to have goodwill
towards all, to rise up before her elders, not to envy her equals, to
avoid boastfulness, to follow reason, to love virtue. When did
she pain her parents even by a look? When did she disagree with
her neighbours? When did she despise the lowly? When did
she avoid the needy? Being wont only to go to such gatherings of
men as mercy would not blush at, nor modesty pass by. There was
nothing gloomy in her eyes, nothing forward in her words, nothing
unseemly in her acts, there was not a silly movement, nor unrestrained
step, nor was her voice petulant, that the very appearance
of her outward being might be the image of her
soul, the representation of what is approved. For a well-ordered
house ought to be recognized on the very threshold, and should show at
the very first entrance that no darkness is hidden within, as our soul
hindered by no restraints of the body may shine abroad like a lamp
placed within.
8. Why should I detail her spareness of food, her
abundance of services—the one abounding beyond nature, the other
almost insufficient for nature? And there were no seasons of
slackness, but days of fasting, one upon the other. And if ever
the desire for refreshment came, her food was generally what came to
hand, taken to keep off death, not to minister to comfort.
Necessity before inclination caused her to sleep, and yet when her body
was sleeping her soul was awake, and often in sleep either went again
through what had been read, or went on with what had been interrupted
by sleep, or carried out what had been designed, or foresaw what was to
be carried out.
9. She was unaccustomed to go from home, except
for divine service, and this with parents or kinsfolk. Busy in
private at home, accompanied by others abroad, yet with no better
guardian than herself, as she, inspiring respect by her gait and
address, progressed not so much by the motion of her feet as by step
upon step of virtue. But though the Virgin had other persons who
were protectors of her body, she alone guarded her character; she can
learn many points if she be her own teacher, who possesses the
perfection of all virtues, for whatever she did is a lesson. Mary
attended to everything as though she were warned by many, and fulfilled
every obligation of virtue as though she were teaching rather than
learning.
10. Such has the Evangelist shown her, such did
the angel find her, such did the Holy Spirit choose her. Why
delay about details? How her parents loved her, strangers praised
her, how worthy she was that the Son of God should be born of
her. She, when the angel entered, was found at home in privacy,
without a companion, that no one might interrupt her attention or
disturb her; and she did not desire any women as companions, who had
the companionship of good thoughts. Moreover, she seemed to
herself to be less alone when she was alone. For how should she
be alone, who had with her so many books, so many archangels, so many
prophets?
11. And so, too, when Gabriel visited
her,
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did he find her, and Mary trembled,
being disturbed, as though at the form of a man, but on hearing his
name recognized him as one not unknown to her. And so she was a
stranger as to men, but not as to the angel; that we might know that
her ears were modest and her eyes bashful. Then when saluted she
kept silence, and when addressed she answered, and she whose feelings
were first troubled afterwards promised obedience.
12. And holy Scripture points out how modest
she was towards her neighbours. For she became more humble when
she knew herself to be chosen of God, and went forthwith to her
kinswoman in the hill country, not in order to gain belief by anything
external, for she had believed the word of God.
“Blessed,” she said, “art thou who didst
believe.”
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And she
abode with her three months. Now in such an interval of time it
is not that faith is being sought for, but kindness which is being
shown. And this was after that the child, leaping in his
mother’s womb, had saluted the mother of the Lord, attaining to
reason before birth.
13. And then, in the many subsequent
wonders, when the barren bore a son, the virgin conceived, the dumb
spake, the wise men worshipped, Simeon waited, the stars gave
notice. Mary, who was moved by the angel’s entrance, was
unmoved by the miracles. “Mary,” it is said,
“kept all these things in her heart.”
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Though she was the mother of the
Lord, yet she desired to learn the precepts of the Lord, and she who
brought forth God, yet desired to know God.
14. And then, how she also went every year to
Jerusalem at the solemn day of the passover, and went with
Joseph. Everywhere is modesty the companion of her singular
virtues in the Virgin. This, without which virginity cannot
exist, must be the inseparable companion of virginity. And so
Mary did not go even to the temple without the guardianship of her
modesty.
15. This is the likeness of virginity. For
Mary was such that her example alone is a lesson for all. If,
then, the author displeases us not, let us make trial of the
production, that whoever desires its reward for herself may imitate the
pattern. How many kinds of virtues shine forth in one
Virgin! The secret of modesty, the banner of faith, the service
of devotion, the Virgin within the house, the companion for the
ministry, the mother at the temple.
16. Oh!
how many virgins shall she meet, how many shall she embrace and bring
to the Lord, and say: “She has been faithful to her
espousal, to my Son; she has kept her bridal couch with spotless
modesty.” How shall the Lord Himself commend them to His
Father, repeating again those words of His: “Holy Father,
these are they whom I have kept for Thee, on whom the Son of Man leant
His head and rested; I ask that where I am there they may be with
Me.”
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And if
they ought to benefit not themselves only, who lived not for themselves
alone, one virgin may redeem her parents, another her brothers.
“Holy Father, the world hath not known Me, but these have known
Me, and have willed not to know the world.”
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17. What a procession shall that be, what
joy of applauding angels when she is found worthy of dwelling in heaven
who lived on earth a heavenly life! Then too Mary,
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taking her timbrel, shall stir up the
choirs of virgins, singing to the Lord because they have passed through
the sea of this world without suffering from the waves of this
world.
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Then
each shall rejoice, saying: “I will go to the altar of God;
to God Who maketh my youth glad;”
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and, “I will offer unto God
thanksgiving, and pay my vows unto the Most High.”
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18. Nor would I hesitate to admit you to the
altars of God, whose souls I would without hesitation call altars, on
which Christ is daily offered for the redemption of the body. For
if the virgin’s body be a temple of God, what is her soul, which,
the ashes, as it were, of the body being shaken off, once more
uncovered by the hand of the Eternal Priest, exhales the vapour of the
divine fire. Blessed virgins, who emit a fragrance through divine
grace as gardens do through flowers, temples through religion, altars
through the priest.
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S.
Luke i. 28
.
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S.
Luke i. 56
.
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S.
Luke ii. 19
.
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S.
John xvii. 24
.
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S.
John xvii. 25
.
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Mary is the same
name as the Hebrew Miriam.
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Ex. xv. 20
.
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Ps. xliii.
[xlii.] 4
.
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Ps. l. [xlix.]
14
.