144 WORKS OF ST. CHRYSOSTOM. [HOMILY XX.
subjection "as unto the Lord," how saith He
that they must depart from them for the Lord s
sake ? Yet their duty indeed it is, theirbounden
duty. But the word
"
as
"
is not necessarily
and universally expressive of exact equality.
He either means this,
"
as knowing that ye
are servants to the Lord
"
; (which, by the way,
is what he says elsewhere, that, even though
they do it not for the husband s sake, yet must
they primarily for the Lord s sake ;) or else he
means,
"
when thou obeyest thy husband, do so
as serving the Lord."
1
For if he who resisteth
these external authorities, those of governments,
I mean,
"
withstandeth the ordinance of God
"
(Rom. xiii. 2), much more does she who submits
not herself to her husband. Such was God s
will from the beginning.
Let us take as our fundamental position then,
that the husband occupies the place of the
"
head," and the wife the place of the
"
body."
Ver. 23, 24. Then, he proceeds with argu
ments and says that
"
the husband is the head
of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the
Church, being Himself the Saviour of the body.
But
2
as the Church is subject to Christ, so let
the wives be to their husbands in everything."
Then after saying,
"
The husband is the head
of the wife, as Christ also is of the Church," he
further adds, "and He is the Saviour of the
body." For indeed the head is the saving
health of the body. He had already laid down
beforehand for man and wife, the ground and
provision of their love, assigning to each their
proper place, to the one that of authority and
forethought, to the other that of submission.
As then
"
the Church," that is, both husbands
and wives,
"
is subject unto Christ, so also ye
wives submit yourselves to your husbands, as
unto God."
Ver. 25.
"
Husbands, love your wives, even as
Christ also loved the Church."
Thou hast heard how great the submission ;
thou hast extolled and marvelled at Paul, how,
like an admirable and spiritual man, he welds
together our whole life. Thou didst well. But
now hear what he also requires at thy hands ;
for again he employs the same example.
"Husbands," saith he, "love your wives, even
as Christ also loved the Church."
Thou hast seen the measure of obedience,
hear also the measure of love.
3
Wouldest thou
1
["
ius expresses the mode of view in which the wives are to re
gard their obedience towards their husbands, namely, as rendered to
the Lord.
"
Meyer. In Luke xiv. 26 the absolute is put for the
relative, as elsewhere often, and this explains our author s difficulty.
G. A.]
2
[This
"
but" is by no means easy of explanation, but probably
is to be understood thus: He is the saviour of the body that man
certainly is not, "but, nevertheless," as the Church is subject to
Christ, so let wives be to their husbands, etc. Ellicott, Meyer,
Bengel, Calvin, and Alford. G. A.]
a
["
Ifyou put all the arguments of orators together, you will not
persuade husband and wife to mutual affection as Paul does in this
place." Bugenhagen, quoted by Meyer. G. A.]
have thy wife obedient unto thee, as the Church
is to Christ ? Take then thyself the same provi
dent care for her, as Christ takes for the Church.
Yea, even if it shall be needful for thee to give
thy life for her, yea, and to be cut into pieces
ten thousand times, yea, and to endure and un
dergo any suffering whatever, refuse it not.
Though thou shouldest undergo all this, yet wilt
thou not, no, not even then, have done anything
like Christ. For thou indeed art doing it for
one to whom thou art already knit ; but He for
one who turned her back on Him and hated
Him. In the same way then as He laid at His
feet her who turned her back on Him, who
hated, and spurned, and disdained Him, not by
menaces, nor by violence, nor by terror, nor by
anything else of the kind, but by his unwearied
affection ; so also do thou behave thyself toward
thy wife. Yea, though thou see her looking
down upon thee, and disdaining, and scorning
thee, yet by thy great thoughtfulness for her, by
affection, by kindness, thou wilt be able to lay
her at thy feet. For there is nothing more
powerful to sway than these bonds, and especially
for husband and wife. A servant, indeed, one
will be able, perhaps, to bind down by fear ; nay
not even him, for he will soon start away and be
gone. But the partner of one s life, the mother
of one s children, the foundation of one s every
joy, one ought never to chain down by fear and
menaces, but with love and good temper. For
what sort of union is that, where the wife trem
bles at her husband ? And what sort of pleas
ure will the husband himself enjoy, if he dwells
with his wife as with a slave, and not as with a
free-woman? Yea, though thou shouldest suffer
anything on her account, do not upbraid her ;
for neither did Christ do this.
Ver. 26.
"
And gave Himself up," he says,
"
for it, that He might sanctify and cleanse it."
So then she was unclean ! So then she had
blemishes, so then she was unsightly, so then she
was worthless ! Whatsoever kind of wife thou
shalt take, yet shalt thou never take such a bride
as the Church, when Christ took her, nor one so
far removed from thee as the Church was from
Christ. And yet for all that, He did not abhor
her, nor loathe her for her surpassing deformity.
Wouldest thou hear her deformity described ?
Hear what Paul saith,
"
For ye were once dark
ness." (Eph. v. 8.) Didst thou see the black
ness of her hue ? What blacker than darkness ?
But look again at her boldness,
"
living," saith
he, "in malice and envy." (Tit. iii. 3.) Look
again at her impurity ;
"
disobedient, foolish."
But what am I saying? She was both foolish,
and of an evil tongue ; and yet notwithstanding,
though so many were her blemishes, yet did He
give Himself up for her in her deformity, as for
one in the bloom of youth, as for one dearly be-