unmarried persons may take place, but then unlawfully; (O that all could live so, but many
have not the power!) let them at least not separate those who have the power, and deny that
the man is a husband or the woman a wife, because there is no fleshly intercourse, but only
the union of hearts between them.
22. Hence, my brethren, understand the sense of Scripture concerning those our ancient
fathers, whose sole design in their marriage was to have children by their wives. For those
even who, according to the custom of their time and nation, had a plurality of wives, lived
in such chastity with them, as not to approach their bed, but for the cause I have mentioned,
thus treating them indeed with honour. But he who exceeds the limits which this rule pre-
scribes for the fulfilment of this end of marriage, acts contrary to the very contract1761 by
which he took his wife. The contract is read, read in the presence of all the attesting witnesses;
and an express clause is there that they marry “for the procreation of children;” and this is
called the marriage contract.1762 If it was not for this that wives were given and taken to
wife, what father could without blushing give up his daughter to the lust of any man? But
now, that the parents may not blush, and that they may give their daughters in honourable
marriage, not to shame,1763 the contract is read out. And what is read from it?—the clause,
“for the sake of the procreation of children.” And when this is heard, the brow of the parent
is cleared up and calmed. Let us consider again the feelings1764 of the husband who takes
his wife. The husband himself would blush to receive her with any other view, if the father
would blush with any other view to give her. Nevertheless, if they cannot contain (as I have
said on other occasions), let them require what is due, and let them not go to any others
than those from whom it is due. Let both the woman and the man seek relief for their in-
firmity in themselves. Let not the husband go to any other woman, nor the woman to any
other man, for from this adultery gets its name, as though it were “a going to another.”1765
And if they exceed the bounds of the marriage contract, let them not at least exceed those
of conjugal fidelity. Is it not a sin in married persons to exact from one another more than
this design of the “procreation of children” renders necessary? It is doubtless a sin, though
a venial one. The Apostle saith, “But I speak this of allowance,”1766 when he was treating
the matter thus. “Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye
may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you
not for your incontinency.”1767 What does this mean? That you do not impose upon
1761 Tabulas.
1762 Tabulæ matrimoniales.
1763 Ut sint soceri non lenones.
1764 Frontem.
1765 Adulterium quasi ad alterum.
1766 1 Cor vii. 6.
1767 1 Cor. vii. 5.
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