100. And yet although Jacob was superior in
virtue and favour, he yielded to his brother’s anger, who grieved
that his younger brother was preferred to him. And so it is
written: “Give place to wrath,” Rom. xii. 19. lest the wrath of another draw you
also into sin, when you wish to resist, and to avenge yourself.
You can put away sin both from him and from yourself, if you think well
to yield. Imitate the patriarch who by his mother’s counsel
went far away. And who was the mother? Rebecca, that is,
Patience. For who but Patience could have given this
counsel? The mother loved her son, but preferred that he should
be cut off from herself rather than from God. And so because the
mother was good, she benefited both her sons, but to the youngest she
gave a blessing which he could keep; yet she preferred not one son to
the other as sons; but the active to the easy-going, the faithful to
the unbelieving.