by the excess of his recompense, the disadvantage he himself sustains in having been second
in making advances towards requital; and the disadvantage again which accrues to the other
from the time, if he was the first sufferer, this he will make up by excess of kindness. For
men, if they are right-minded, are not so affected by evil as by the good treatment they may
receive at the hands of those whom they have injured. For it is a base sin, and it is matter of
reproach and scorn for a man who is well-treated not to return it; whilst for a man who is
ill-treated, not to go about to resent it, this has the praise and applause, and the good word
of all. And therefore they are more deeply touched by this conduct than any.
So that if thou hast a wish to revenge thyself, revenge thyself in this manner. Return
good for evil, that thou mayest render him even thy debtor, and achieve a glorious victory.
Hast thou suffered evil? Do good; thus avenge thee of thine enemy. For if thou shalt go about
to resent it, all will blame both thee and him alike. Whereas if thou shalt endure it, it will
be otherwise. Thee they will applaud and admire; but him they will reproach. And what
greater punishment can there be to an enemy, than to behold his enemy admired and ap-
plauded by all men? What more bitter to an enemy, than to behold himself reproached by
all before his enemy’s face? If thou shalt avenge thee on him, thou wilt both be condemned
perhaps thyself, and wilt be the sole avenger; whereas, if thou shalt forgive him, all will be
avengers in thy stead. And this will be far more severe than any evil he can suffer, that his
enemy should have so many to avenge him. If thou openest thy mouth, they will be silent;
but if thou art silent, not with one tongue only, but with ten thousand tongues of others,
thou smitest him, and art the more avenged. And on thee indeed, if thou shalt reproach
him, many again will cast imputations (for they will say that thy words are those of passion);
but when others who have suffered no wrong from him thus overwhelm him with reproaches,
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then is the revenge especially clear of all suspicion. For when they who have suffered no
mischief, in consequence of thy excessive forbearance feel and sympathize with thee, as
though they had been wronged themselves, this is a vengeance clear of all suspicion. “But
what then,” ye will say, “if no man should take vengeance?” It cannot be that men will be
such stones, as to behold such wisdom and not admire it. And though they wreak not their
vengeance on him at the time; still, afterwards, when they are in the mood, they will do so,
and they will continue to scoff at him and abuse him. And if no one else admire thee, the
man himself will most surely admire thee, though he may not own it. For our judgment of
what is right, even though we be come to the very depth of wickedness, remains impartial
and unbiased. Why, suppose ye, did our Lord Christ say, “Whosoever smiteth thee on the
right cheek, turn to him the other also”? (Matt. v. 39.) Is it not because the more long-suf-
fering a man is, the more signal the benefit he confers both on himself and on the other?
For this cause He charges us to “turn the other also,” to satisfy the desire of the enraged.
For who is such a monster as not to be at once put to shame? The very dogs are said to feel
it; for if they bark and attack a man, and he throws himself on his back and does nothing,
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