454 WORKS OF ST. CHRYSOSTOM. [HOMILY XIV.
of luxury and self-indulgence, he says that it is
not for this only that such a woman is punished,
because she is luxurious, but because her luxury
compels her to neglect her household. This he
says with reason ; for she that liveth to the belly,
perishes hereby also, as "having denied the
faith." But how is she worse than an infidel?
Because it is not the same thing to neglect our
kindred, as to neglect a stranger. How should
it be? But the fault is greater here, to desert
one known than one who is unknown to us, a
friend than one who is not a friend.
Ver. 9, 10.
"
Let not a widow be taken into
the number under threescore years old, having
been the wife of one man. Well reported of
for good works."
He had said,
"
Let them learn first to show
piety at home, and to requite their parents."
He had also said,
"
She that liveth in pleasure is
dead whilst she liveth." He had said,
"
If she
1
provides not for her own she is worse than an
infidel." Having mentioned the qualities which
not to have would render a woman unworthy to
be reckoned among the widows, he now men
tions what she ought to have besides. What
then? are we to receive her for her years?
What merit is there in that? It is not her own
doing that she is threescore years old. There
fore he does not speak of her age merely, as, if
she has even reached those years, she may not
yet, he says, without good works, be reckoned
among the number. But why then is he par
ticular about the age? He afterwards assigns
a cause not originating with himself, but with
the widows themselves. Meanwhile let us hear
what follows.
"
Well reported of forgood works,
if she have brought up children." Truly, it is
no unimportant work to bring up children ; but
bringing them up is not merely taking care of
them ; they must be brought up well ; as he
said before,
"
If they continue in faith, and
charity, and holiness." (i Tim. ii. 15.) Ob-
. serve how constantly he sets kindnesses to our
own relatives before those to strangers. First,
he says,
"
If she have brought up children,"
then,
"
If she have lodged strangers, if she have
washed the Saints feet, if she have relieved the
afflicted, if she have diligently followed every
good work." But what if she be poor? Not
even in that case is she debarred from bringing
up children, lodging strangers, relieving the
afflicted. She is not more destitute than the
widow who gave the two mites. Poor though
she be, she has an house, she does not lodge in
the open air.
"
If,"
he says,
"
she have washed
the Saints feet." This is not a costly work.
"If she have diligently followed every good
work." What precept does he give here? He
1
The feminine is not marked, but implied by his comment; see
p. 450.
exhorts them to contribute bodily service, for
women are peculiarly fitted for such attendance,
for making the bed of the sick, and composing
them to rest.
Strange
! what strictness does he require of
widows ; almost as much as of the Bishop him
self. For he says,
"
If she have diligently fol
lowed every good work." This is as though he
meant that, if she could not of herself perform
it, she shared and cooperated in it. When he
cuts off luxury, he would have her provident, a
good economist, and at the same time con
tinually persevering in prayer. Such was Anna.
Such strictness does he require of widows.
Greater even than of virgins, from whom he yet
requires much strictness, and eminent virtue.
For when he speaks of "that which is comely,"
and "that she may attend upon the Lord with
out distraction
"
(i Cor. vii. 35), he gives, in a
manner, a summary of all virtue. You see that
it is not merely the not contracting a second
marriage that is enough to make a widow, many
other things are necessary. But why does he
discourage second marriages ? Is the thing con
demned? By no means. That is heretical.
Only he would have her henceforth occupied
in spiritual things, transferring all her care to
virtue. For marriage is not an impure state,
but one of much occupation. He speaks of
their having leisure, not of their being more
pure by remaining unmarried. For marriage
certainly implies much secular engagement. If
you abstain from marriage that you may have
leisure for the service of God, and yet do not
so employ that leisure, it is of no advantage to
you, (if you do not use your leisure,) to perform
all services to strangers, and to the Saints.2 If
you do not thus, you abstain from marriage not
for any good end, but as though you condemned
the state. So the virgin, who is not truly cruci
fied to the world, by declining marriage, appears
to condemn it as accursed and impure.
Observe, the hospitality here spoken of is not
merely a friendly reception, but one given with
zeal and alacrity, with readiness, and going
about it as if one were receiving Christ Himself.
The widows should perform these services them
selves, not commit them to their handmaids.
For Christ said,
"
If I your Master and Lord
have washed your feet, ye ought also to wash
one another s feet." (John xiii. 14.) And
though a woman may be very rich, and of the
highest rank, vain of her birth and noble family,
there is not the same distance between her and
others, as between God and the disciples. If
thou receivest the stranger as Christ, be not
ashamed, but rather glory : but if you receive
J The sense is clear, but the Greek admits of no grammatical
construction. Downes, as usual, alters it boldly. This translation
supposes an abrupt construction, reading fni&ftKvvfi.