10. But we have not incurred any grievous
sin by our tears. Not all weeping proceeds from unbelief or
weakness. Natural grief is one thing, distrustful sadness is
another, and there is a very great difference between longing for what
you have lost and lamenting that you have lost it. Not only grief
has tears, joy also has tears of its own. Both piety excites
weeping, and prayer waters the couch, and supplication, according to
the prophet’s saying, washes the bed. Ps. vi. 7. Their friends made a great
mourning when the patriarchs were buried. Tears, then, are marks
of devotion, not producers of grief. As in many
other passages, a play upon words cannot be translated. The Latin
is: Lacrymæ ergo pietatis indices, non illices sunt
doloris. I
confess, then, that I too wept, but the Lord also wept. He wept
for one not related to Him, I for my brother. He wept for all in
weeping for one, I will weep for thee in all, my brother.