8. She indeed who was given to Adam as a
help meet for him, because it was not good for man to be
alone, Gen. ii. 18. instead of an
assistant became an enemy,
and instead of a yoke-fellow, an opponent, and beguiling the man by
means of pleasure, estranged him through the tree of knowledge from the
tree of life. But she who was given by God to my father became
not only, as is less wonderful, his assistant, but even his leader,
drawing him on by her influence in deed and word to the highest
excellence; judging it best in all other respects to be overruled by
her husband according to the law of marriage, but not being ashamed, in
regard of piety, even to offer herself as his teacher. Admirable
indeed as was this conduct of hers, it was still more admirable that he
should readily acquiesce in it. She is a woman who while others
have been honoured and extolled for natural and artificial beauty, has
acknowledged but one kind of beauty, that of the soul, and the
preservation, or the restoration as far as possible, of the Divine
image. Pigments and devices for adornment she has rejected as
worthy of women on the stage. The only genuine form of noble
birth she recognized is piety, and the knowledge of whence we are
sprung and whither we are tending. The only safe and inviolable
form of wealth is, she considered, to strip oneself of wealth for God
and the poor, and especially for those of our own kin who are
unfortunate; and such help only as is necessary, she held to be rather
a reminder, than a relief of their distress, while a more liberal
beneficence brings stable honour and most perfect consolation.
Some women have excelled in thrifty management, others in piety, while
she, difficult as it is to unite the two virtues, has surpassed all in
both of them, both by her eminence in each, and by the fact that she
alone has combined them together. To as great a degree has she,
by her care and skill, secured the prosperity of her household,
according to the injunctions and laws of Solomon as to the valiant
woman, as if she had had no knowledge of piety; and she applied herself
to God and Divine things as closely as if absolutely released from
household cares, allowing neither branch of her duty to interfere with
the other, but rather making each of them support the other.