111. Jacob also, his holy grandson, loved to
pass his time at home free from danger; but his mother wished him to
live in foreign parts, and so give place to his brother’s
anger. Gen. xxvii. 42 ff. Sound counsels prevailed over natural
feelings. An exile from home, banished from his parents, yet
everywhere, in all he did, he observed due measure, such as was
fitting, and made use of his opportunities at the right time. So
dear was he to his parents at home, that the one, moved by the
promptness of his compliance, gave him his blessing, the other inclined
towards him with tender love. In the judgment of his brother,
also, he was placed first, when he thought that he ought to give up his
food to his brother. Gen. xxv. 34. St. Ambrose at times gets carried
away by his subject and says more than is warranted by the words of the
Bible. Cf. also II. § 101; II. § 154; III. §
64. For though
according to his natural inclinations he wished for food, yet when
asked for it he gave it up from a feeling of brotherly affection.
He was a faithful shepherd of the flock for his master, an attentive
son-in-law to his father-in-law; he was active in work, sparing in his
meals, conspicuous in making amends, lavish in repaying. Nay, so
well did he calm his brother’s anger that he received his favour,
though he had feared his enmity. Gen. xxxiii. 4.