X. Marriage is honourable; but I cannot say
that it is more lofty than virginity; for virginity were no great thing
if it were not better than a good thing. Do not however be angry,
ye women that are subject to the yoke. We must obey God rather
than man. But be ye bound together, both virgins and wives, and
be one in the Lord, and each others’ adornment. There would
be no celibate if there were no marriage. For whence would the
virgin have passed into this life? Marriage would not have been
venerable unless it had borne virgin fruit to God and to life.
Honour thou also thy mother, of whom thou wast born. Honour thou
also her who is of a mother and is a mother. The passage is
obscure. Combefis reads, “Though she be not a mother”
but the mss are against him. A mother she is not, but a Bride of
Christ she is. The visible beauty is not hidden, but that which
is unseen is visible to God. All the glory of the King’s
Daughter is within, Ps. xlv. 14. clothed with golden
fringes, embroidered whether by actions or by contemplation. And
she who is under the yoke, let her also in some degree be
Christ’s; and the virgin altogether Christ’s. Let the
one be not entirely chained to the world, Luke viii. 14.
and let the other not belong to the world at all. For that which
is a part to the yoked, is to the virgin all in all. Hast thou
chosen the life of Angels? Art thou ranked among the
unyoked? Sink not down to the flesh; sink not down to matter; be
not wedded to matter, while otherwise thou remainest unwedded. A
lascivious eye guardeth not virginity; a meretricious tongue mingles
with the Evil One; feet that walk disorderly accuse of disease or
danger. Let the mind also be virgin; let it not rove about; let
it not wander; let it not carry in itself forms of evil things (for the
form is a part of harlotry); let it not make idols in its soul of
hateful things.