Chapter IV.
By the example of Anna St. Ambrose shows what ought to
be the life of widows, and shows that she was an example of chastity at
every age. From this he argues that there are three degrees of
the same virtue, all of which are included in the Church, and sets
forth several examples in Mary, in Anna, and in Susanna. But, he
adds, the state of virginity is superior to either of the others, but
that a widow ought to take greater care for the preservation of her
good name.
21.
Scripture
then
teaches as how much grace is conferred by unity, and how great is the
gift of divine blessing in widows. And since such honour is given
them by God, we must observe what mode of life corresponds thereto; for
Anna shows what widows ought to be, who, left destitute by the early
death of her husband, yet obtained the reward of full praise, being
intent not less on the duties of religion than on the pursuit of
chastity. A widow, it is said, of
fourscore and four years, a widow who
departed not from the temple, a widow who served God night and day with
fastings and with prayers.
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22. You see what sort of person a widow is said to
be, the wife of one man, tested also by the progress of age, vigorous
in religion, and worn out in body, whose resting-place is the temple,
whose conversation is prayer, whose life is fasting, who in the times
of day and night by a service of unwearied devotion, though the body
acknowledge old age, yet knows no age in her piety. Thus is a
widow trained from her youth, thus is she spoken of in her age, who has
kept her widowhood not through the chance of time, nor through weakness
of body, but by large-heartedness in virtue. For when it is said
that she was for seven years from her virginity with her husband, it is
a setting forth that the things which are the support of her old age
began in the aims of her youth.
23. And so we are taught that the virtue of
chastity is threefold, one kind that of married life, a second that of
widowhood, and the third that of virginity, for we do not so set forth
one as to exclude others. These result each in that which belongs
to each. The training of the Church is rich in this, that it has
those whom it may set before others, but has none whom it rejects, and
would that it never could have any! We have so spoken of
virginity as not to reject widowhood, we so reverence widows as to
reserve its own honour for wedlock. It is not our precepts but
the divine sayings which teach this.
24. Let us remember then how Mary, how Anna,
and how Susanna are spoken of. But since not only must we
celebrate their praises but also follow their manner of life, let us
remember where Susanna,
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and
Anna,
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and Mary
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are found, and observe how each is
spoken of with her special commendation, and where each is mentioned,
she that is married in the garden, the widow in the temple, the virgin
in her secret chamber.
25. But in the former the fruit is later, in
virginity it is earlier; old age proves them, virginity is the praise
of youth, and does not need the help of years, being the fruit of every
age. It becomes early years, it adorns youth, it adds to the
dignity of age, and at all ages it has the gray hairs of its
righteousness, the ripeness of its gravity, the veil of modesty, which
does hinder devotion and increases religion. For we see by what
follows that holy Mary went every year with Joseph to Jerusalem on the
solemn day of the passover.
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Everywhere in company with the Virgin is eager devotion and a zealous
sharer of her chastity. Nor is the Mother of the Lord puffed up,
as though secure of her own merits, but the more she recognized her
merit, the more fully did she pay her vows, the more abundantly did she
perform her service, the more fully did she discharge her office, the
more religiously did she perform her duty and fill up the mystic
time.
26. How much more then does it beseem you to be
intent on the pursuit of chastity, lest you leave any place for
unfavourable opinion who have the evidence of your modesty and your
behaviour alone. For a virgin, though in her also character
rather than the body has the first claim, puts away calumny by the
integrity of her body, a widow who has lost the assistance of being
able to prove her virginity undergoes the inquiry as to her chastity
not according to the word of a midwife, but according to her own manner
of life. Scripture, then, has shown how attentive and religious
should be the disposition of a widow.
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S.
Luke ii. 36, 37
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Sus. 63
.
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S.
Luke ii. 37
.
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S.
Luke i. 28
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S.
Luke ii. 41
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