greater assistance. For the enemy of holiness is always surprising and lying in wait for these
persons, ready to devour any one of them if she should slip and fall; many men also there
are who lay snares for them; and besides all these things there is the passionateness of their
own human nature, so that, speaking generally, the virgin has to equip herself for a twofold
war, one which attacks her from without, and the other which presses upon her from within.
For these reasons he who has the superintendence of virgins suffers great alarm, and the
danger and distress is yet greater, should any of the things which are contrary to his wishes
occur, which God forbid. For if a daughter kept in seclusion is a cause of sleeplessness to
her father, his anxiety about her depriving him of sleep, where the fear is so great lest she
should be childless, or pass the flower of her age (unmarried), or be hated (by her hus-
band),121 what will he suffer whose anxiety is not concerned with any of these things, but
others far greater? For in this case it is not a man who is rejected, but Christ Himself, nor
is this barrenness the subject merely of reproach, but the evil ends in the destruction of the
soul; “for every tree,” it is said, “which bringeth not forth good fruit, is hewn down and cast
into the fire.”122 And for one who has been repudiated by the divine Bridegroom, it is not
sufficient to receive a certificate of divorce and so to depart, but she has to pay the penalty
of everlasting punishment. Moreover, a father according to the flesh has many things which
make the custody of his daughter easy; for the mother, and nurse, and a multitude of
handmaids share in helping the parent to keep the maiden safe. For neither is she permitted
to be perpetually hurrying into the market-place, nor when she does go there is she compelled
to show herself to any of the passers-by, the evening darkness concealing one who does not
wish to be seen no less than the walls of the house. And apart from these things, she is relieved
from every cause which might otherwise compel her to meet the gaze of men; for no anxiety
about the necessaries of life, no menaces of oppressors, nor anything of that kind reduces
her to this unfortunate necessity, her father acting in her stead in all these matters; while
she herself has only one anxiety, which is to avoid doing or saying anything unworthy the
modest conduct which becomes her. But in the other case there are many things which make
the custody of the virgin difficult, or rather impossible for the father; for he could not have
her in his house with himself, as dwelling together in that way would be neither seemly nor
safe. For even if they themselves should suffer no loss, but continue to preserve their inno-
cence unsullied, they would have to give an account for the souls which they have offended,
just as much as if they happened to sin with one another. And it being impossible for them
to live together, it is not easy to understand the movements of the character, and to suppress
the impulses which are ill regulated, or train and improve those which are better ordered
and tuned. Nor is it an easy thing to interfere in her habits of walking out; for her poverty
121 Ecclus. xlii. 9.
122 Matt. iii. 10.
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