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are habits and dispositions. And our abandon
ment of the one thing is not sufficient to settle
us in the habitual practice of the other, but
there is need again of some fresh impulse, and
of an effort not less than that made in our avoid
ance of evil dispositions, in order to our acquir
ing good ones. For so in the case of the body,
the black man, if he gets rid of this complexion,
does not straightway become white. Or rather
let us not conduct our discourse with an argu
ment from physical subjects, but draw our ex
ample from those which concern moral choice.
He who is not our enemy, is not necessarily our
friend ; but there is an intermediate state, neither
of enmity nor of friendship, which is perhaps
that in which the greater part of mankind stand
toward us. He that is not crying is not there
fore necessarily also laughing, but there is a state
between the two. And so, I say, is the case
here. He that is not
"
bitter
"
is not necessarily
"
kind," neither is he that is not "wrathful"
necessarily
"
tender-hearted
"
; but there is need
of a distinct effort, in order to acquire this ex
cellence. And now look how the blessed Paul,
according to the rules of the best husbandry,
thoroughly cleans and works the land entrusted
to him by the Husbandman. He has taken
away the bad seeds ; he now exhorts us to retain
the good plants.
"
Be ye kind," saith he, for if,
when the thorns are plucked up, the field re
mains idle, it will again bear unprofitable weeds.
And therefore there is need to preoccupy its un
occupied and fallow state by the setting of good
seeds and plants. He takes away
"
anger," he
puts in
"
kindness
"
; he takes away "bitterness,"
he puts in
"
tender-heartedness
"
; he extirpates
"
malice
"
and
"
railing," he plants
"
forgive
ness
"
in their stead. For the expression, "for
giving one another," is this ; be disposed, he
means, to forgive one another. And this for
giveness is greater than that which is shown in
money-matters. For he indeed who forgives a
debt of money to him that has borrowed of him,
does, it is true, a noble and admirable deed, but
then the kindness is confined to the body, though
to himself indeed he repays a full recompense
by that benefit which is spiritual and concerns
the soul ; whereas he who forgives trespasses will
be benefiting alike his own soul, and the soul
of him who receives the forgiveness. For by
this way of acting, he not only renders him
self, but the other also, more charitable. Be
cause we do not so deeply touch the souls of
those who have wronged us by revenging our
selves, as by pardoning them, and thus shaming
them and putting them out of countenance. For
by the other course we shall be doing no good,
either to ourselves or to them, but shall be doing
harm to both by seeking ourselves for retaliation,
like the rulers of the Jews, and by kindling up
the wrath that is in them ; but if we return injus
tice with gentleness, we shall disarm all his anger,
and shall be setting up in his breast a tribunal
which will give a verdict in our favor, and will
condemn him more severely than we ourselves
could. For he will convict and will pass sen
tence upon himself, and will look for every pre
text for repaying the share of long-suffering
granted him with fuller measure, knowing that,
if he repay it in equal measure, he is thus at a
disadvantage, in not having himself made the
beginning, but received the example from us.
He will strive accordingly to exceed in meas
ure, in order to eclipse, by the excess of his
recompense, the disadvantage he himself sus
tains in having been second in making advances
towards requital ; and the disadvantage again
which accrues to the other from the time, if he
was the first sufferer, this he will make up by
excess of kindness. For men, if they are right-
minded, are not so affected by evil as by the
good treatment they may receive at the hands
of those whom they have injured. For it is a
base sin, and it is matter of reproach and scorn
for a man who is well-treated not to return it ;
whilst for a man who is ill-treated, not to go
about to resent it, this has the praise and ap
plause, and the good word of all. And there
fore they are more deeply touched by this
conduct than any.
So that if thou hast a wish to revenge thyself,
revenge thyself in this manner. Return good
for evil, that thou mayest render him even thy
debtor, and achieve a glorious victory. Hast
thou suffered evil ? Do good ; thus avenge thee
of thine enemy. For if thou shall go about to
resent it, all will blame both thee and him alike.
Whereas if thou shalt endure it, it will be other
wise. Thee they will applaud and admire ; but
him they will reproach. And what greater pun
ishment can there be to an enemy, than to be
hold his enemy admired and applauded by all
men? What more bitter to an enemy, than to
behold himself reproached by all before his ene
my s face ? If thou shalt avenge thee on him,
thou wilt both be condemned perhaps thyself,
and wilt be the sole avenger ; whereas, if thou
shalt forgive him, all will be avengers in thy
stead. And this will be far more severe than
any evil he can suffer, that his enemy should
have so many to avenge him. If thou openest
thy mouth, they will be silent ; but if thou art
silent, not with one tongue only, but with ten
thousand tongues of others, thou smitest him,
and art the more avenged. And on thee in
deed, if thou shalt reproach him, many again
will cast imputations (for they will say that thy
words are those of passion) ; but when others
who have suffered no wrong from him thus over
whelm him with reproaches, then is the revenge