“Husbands love your
wives.”
Eph. v. 25. Although
formed of two bodies you are united to live in the communion of
wedlock. May this natural link, may this yoke imposed by the
blessing, reunite those who are divided. The viper, the cruelest
of reptiles, unites itself with the sea lamprey, and, announcing its
presence by a hiss, it calls it from the depths to conjugal
union. The lamprey obeys, and is united to this venomous
animal. The fable is
in Ælian, Hist. An. ix. 66, and is contradicted by
Athenæus, who says (vii. p. 312): ᾽Ανδρέας δὲ
ἐν τῷ περὶ
τῶν ψευδῶς
πεπιστευμένων
ψευδός
φησιν εἶναι
τὸ Μύραιναν
ἔχιϊ
μίγνυσθαι
προσερχομένην
ἐπὶ τὸ
τεναγῶδες,
οὐδὲ γαρ
ἐπὶ
τενάγους
ἔχεις
νέμεσθαι,
φιληδοῦντας
λιμώδεσιν
ἐρημίαις.
Σώστρατος
δὲ ἐν τοῖς
περὶ Ζώων
συγκατατίθεται
τῇ μίξει. What does
this mean? However hard, however fierce a husband may be, the
wife ought to bear with him, and not wish to find any pretext for
breaking the union. He strikes you, but he is your husband.
He is a drunkard, but he is united to you by nature. He is brutal
and cross, but he is henceforth one of your members, and the most
precious of all.