kind, all will applaud, and there will be none to upbraid thee; but if thou do it for any reasons
of thine own, all will condemn thy cruelty and harshness. And what is more base than all,
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there are some so fierce and so savage as to lash them to such a degree, that the bruises will
not disappear with the day. For they will strip the damsels, and call their husbands for the
purpose, and oftentimes tie them to the pallets. Alas! at that moment, tell me, does no recol-
lection of hell come over thee? What? dost thou strip thy handmaid, and expose her to thy
husband? And art thou not ashamed, lest he should condemn thee for it? And then dost
thou exasperate him yet more, and threaten to put her in chains, having first taunted the
wretched and pitiable creature with ten thousand reproachful names, and called her
“Thessalian witch,358 runaway, and prostitute”?
For her passion allows her not to spare even her own mouth, but she looks to one single
object, how she may wreak her vengeance on the other, even though she disgrace herself.
And then after all these things forsooth, she will sit in state like any tyrant, and call her
children, and summon her foolish husband, and treat him as a hangman. Ought these things
to take place in the houses of Christians? “Aye” say ye, “but slaves are a troublesome, auda-
cious, impudent, incorrigible race.” True, I know it myself, but there are other ways to keep
them in order; by terrors, by threats, by words; which may both touch her more powerfully,
and save thee from disgrace. Thou who art a free woman hast uttered foul words, and dost
thou not disgrace thyself more than her? Then if she shall have occasion to go out to the
bath, there are bruises on her back when she is naked, and she carries about with her the
marks of thy cruelty. “But,” say ye, “the whole tribe of slaves is intolerable if it meet with
indulgence.” True, I know it myself. But then, as I was saying, correct them in some other
way, not by the scourge only, and by terror, but even by flattering them, and by acts of
kindness. If she is a believer, she is thy sister. Consider that thou art her mistress, and that
she ministers unto thee. If she be intemperate, cut off the occasions of drunkenness; call thy
husband, and admonish her. Or dost thou not feel how disgraceful a thing it is for a woman
to be beaten? They at least who have enacted ten thousand punishments for men,—the stake,
and the rack,—will scarcely ever hang a woman, but limit men’s anger to smiting her on
the cheek; and so great respect have they observed towards the sex, that not even when there
is absolute necessity have they often hung a woman, if she happen to be pregnant. For it is
a disgrace for a man to strike a woman; and if for a man, much more for one of her own
sex. It is moreover by these things that women become odious to their husbands. “What
then,” ye may say, “if she shall act the harlot?” Marry her to a husband; cut off the occasions
of fornication, suffer her not to be too high fed. “What then, if she shall steal?” Take care of
her, and watch her.—“Extravagant!” thou wilt say; “What, am I to be her keeper? How ab-
358 Vid. Aristoph. Nub. 749, γυναῖκα φαρμακίδ᾽ εἰ πριάμενος Θετταλήν. Schol., μέχρι καὶ νῦν φαρμακίδες
αἱ Θετταλαὶ καλοῦνται. [What a fearful picture of the cruelties of the mistresses of Chrysostom’s day!—G.A.]
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