Chapter II.
Discourse of the same elder on the untrustworthy sort of
friendship.
There
are many kinds of
friendship and companionship which unite men in very different ways in
the bonds of love. For some a previous recommendation makes to enter
upon an intercourse first of acquaintance and afterwards even of
friendship. In the case of others some bargain or an agreement to give
and take something has joined them in the bonds of love. Others a
similarity and union of business or science or art or study has united
in the chain of friendship, by which even fierce souls become kindly
disposed to each other, so that those, who in forests and mountains
delight in robbery and revel in human bloodshed, embrace and cherish
the partners of their crimes. But there is another kind of love, where
the union is from the instincts of nature and the laws of
consanguinity, whereby those of the same tribe, wives and parents, and
brothers and children are naturally preferred to others, a thing which
we find is the case not only with mankind but with all birds and
beasts. For at the prompting of a natural instinct they protect and
defend their offspring and their young ones so that often they are not
afraid to expose themselves to danger and death for their sakes. Indeed
those kinds of beasts and serpents and birds, which are cut off and
separated from all others by their intolerable ferocity or deadly
poison, as basilisks, unicorns and vultures, though by their very look
they are said to be dangerous to every one, yet among themselves they
remain peaceful and harmless owing to community of origin and
fellow-feeling. But we see that all these kinds of love of which we
have spoken, as they are common both to the good and bad, and to beasts
and serpents, certainly cannot last for ever. For often separation of
place interrupts and breaks them off, as well as forgetfulness from
lapse of time, and the transaction of affairs and business and words.
For as they are generally due to different kinds of connexions either
of gain, or desires, or kinship, or business, so when any occasion for
separation intervenes they are broken off.