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may receive their bodies pure and unpolluted,
so their loves will be more ardent. He that is
chaste before marriage, much more will he be
chaste after it ; and he that practiced fornica
tion before, will practice it after marriage.
"
All
bread," it is said, "is sweet to the fornicator." ;
(Ecclus. xxiii. 17.) Garlands are wont to be |
worn on the heads of bridegrooms, as a symbol
of victory, betokening that they approach the
marriage bed unconquered by pleasure. But if
captivated by pleasure he has given himselfup
to harlots, why does he wear the garland, since
he has been subdued?
Let us admonish them of these things. Let
us employ sometimes advice, sometimes warn
ings, sometimes threatening. In children we
have a great charge committed to us. Let us
bestow great care upon them, and do every
thing that the Evil One may not rob us of them.
But now our practice is the very reverse of this.
We take all care indeed to have our farm in
good order, and to commit it to a faithful man
ager, we look out for it an ass-driver, and mule
teer, and bailiff, and a clever accomptant. But
we do not look out for what is much more im
portant, for a person to whom we may commit
our son as the guardian of his morals, though
this is a possession much more valuable than all
others. It is for him indeed that we take such
care of our estate. We take care of our posses
sions for our children, but of the children them
selves we take no care at all. What an absurdity
is this ! Form the soul of thy son aright, and
all the rest will be added hereafter. If that is
not good, he will derive no advantage from his
wealth, and if it is formed to goodness he will
suffer no harm from poverty. Wonkiest thou
leave him rich ? teach him to be good : for so
he will be able to acquire wealth, or if not, he will
not fare worse than they who possess it. But
if he be wicked, though you leave him bound
less wealth, you leave him no one to take care
of it, and you render him worse than those who
are reduced to extreme poverty. For poverty
is better than riches for those children who are
not well-disposed. For it retains them in some
degree of virtue even against their will. Whereas
money does not suffer those who would be sober
to continue so, it leads them away, ruins them,
and plunges them into infinite dangers.
Mothers, be specially careful to regulate your
daughters well ; for the management of them is
easy. Be watchful over them, that they may be
keepers at home. Above all, instruct them to
be pious, modest, despisers of wealth, indifferent
to ornament. In this way dispose of them in
marriage. For if you form them in this way,
you will save not only them, but the husband
who is destined to marry them, and not the
husband only, but the children, not the children
only, but the grandchildren. For the root being
made good, good branches will shoot forth, and
still become better, and for all these you will
receive a reward. Let us do all things there
fore, as benefiting not only one soul, but many
through that one. For they ought to go from
their father s house to marriage, as combatants
from the school of exercise, furnished with all
necessary knowledge, and to be as leaven able
to transform the whole lump to its own virtue.
And let your sons be so modest, as to be dis
tinguished for their steadiness and sobriety, that
they may receive great praise both from God
and men. Let them learn to govern their ap
petites, to avoid extravagance, to be good econ
omists, affectionate, and submissive to rule. For
so they will be able to secure a good reward to
their parents, so all things will be done to the
glory of God, and to our salvation, through
Christ Jesus our Lord, with whom, &c.
HOMILY X.
i TIMOTHY iii. 1-4.
"
If a man desire the office of a Bishop, he desireth a
good work. A Bishop then must be blameless, the
husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behav
ior, given to hospitality, apt to teach; not given to
wine, no striker, not greedy of lilthy lucre; but
patient, not a brawler, not covetous; one that
ruleth well his own house, having his children in
subjection with all gravity."
As now proceeding to discourse of the Epis
copal office, he sets out with showing what sort
of a person a Bishop ought to be. And here he
does not do it as in the course of his exhorta
tion to Timothy, but addresses all, and instructs
others through him. And what says he ?
"
If a
man desire the office of a Bishop," I do not
blame him, for it is a work of protection. If
any one has this desire, so that he does not
covet the dominion and authority, but wishes to
protect the Church, I blame him not. "For he
desireth a good work." Even Moses desired