be with Christ which is far better.”345 But perhaps you long to hear your husband’s words,
and enjoy the affection which you bestowed upon him, and you yearn for his society, and
the glory which you had on his account, and the splendour, and honour, and security, and
all these things being gone distress and darken your life. Well! the affection which you be
stowed on him you can keep now just as you formerly did.
For such is the power of love, it embraces, and unites, and fastens together not only
those who are present, and near, and visible but also those who are far distant; and neither
length of time, nor separation in space, nor anything else of that kind can break up and
sunder in pieces the affection of the soul. But if you wish to behold him face to face (for this
I know is what you specially long for) keep thy bed in his honour sacred from the touch of
any other man, and do thy best to manifest a life like his, and then assuredly thou shalt depart
one day to join the same company with him, not to dwell with him for five years as thou
didst here, nor for 20, or 100, nor for a thousand or twice that number but for infinite and
endless ages. For it is not any physical relation, but a correspondence in the way of living
which qualifies for the inheritance of those regions of rest. For if it was identity of moral
constitution which brought Lazarus although a stranger to Abraham into the same heavenly
bosom with him, and qualifies many from east and west to sit down with him, the place of
rest will receive thee also with the good Therasius, if thou wilt exhibit the same manner of
life as his, and then thou shalt receive him back again no longer in that corporeal beauty
which he had when he departed, but in lustre of another kind, and splendour outshining
the rays of the sun. For this body, even if it reaches a very high standard of beauty is never-
theless perishable; but the bodies of those who have been well pleasing to God, will be invested
with such glory as these eyes cannot even look upon. And God has furnished us with certain
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tokens, and obscure indications of these things both in the Old and in the New Dispensation.
For in the former the face of Moses shone with such glory as to be intolerable to the eyes of
the Israelites, and in the New the face of Christ shone far more brilliantly than his. For tell
me if any one had promised to make your husband king of all the earth, and then had
commanded you to withdraw for twenty years on his account, and had promised after that
to restore him to you with the diadem and the purple, and to place you again in the same
rank with him, would you not have meekly endured the separation with due self-control?
Would you not have been well pleased with the gift, and deemed it a thing worth praying
for? Well then submit to this now, not for the sake of a kingdom on earth, but of a kingdom
in Heaven; not to receive him back clad in a vesture of gold but robed in immortality and
glory such as is fitting for them to have who dwell in Heaven. And if you find the trial very
unbearable owing to its long duration, it may be that he will visit you by means of visions
and converse with you as he was wont to do, and show you the face for which you yearn:
345 Phil. i. 33.
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