Secondly, That we may do those things that are
proper to grieve him, though he be not passively grieved; our sin
being no less therein than if he were grieved as we are. Now, how this is
done, how the Spirit is grieved, the apostle declareth in the contexture of
that discourse, verses
21–24. He presseth to a progress in sanctification, and all the
fruits of regeneration, verses
25–29. He dehorts from sundry particular evils that were
contrary thereto, and then gives the general enforcement of the one and the
other, “And grieve not the Holy Spirit of God;” that is, by coming short of
that universal sanctification which our planting into Christ doth require.
The positive duty included in this caution, of not grieving the
Holy Spirit, is this, — that we pursue universal holiness with
regard unto, and upon the account of, the love, kindness, and tenderness,
of the Holy Ghost. This is the foundation of our communion we have in
general. When the soul considers the love, kindness, and tenderness of the
Holy Ghost unto him; when he considers all the fruits and acts of his love
and good-will towards him; and on that account, and under that
consideration, because he is so concerned in our ways and walkings, to
abstain from evils, and to walk in all duties of holiness, — this is to
have communion with him. This consideration, that the Holy Ghost, who is
our comforter, is delighted with our obedience, grieved at our evils and
follies, being made a continual motive to, and reason of, our close walking
with God in all holiness, is, I say, the first general way of our communion
with him.