84. Widowhood is, then, good, which is so often
praised by the judgment of the apostles, for it is a teacher of the
faith
and a teacher of
chastity. Whereas they who honour the adulteries and the shame of
their gods appointed penalties for celibacy and widowhood; The
reference would seem to be to the “Lex Julia et Papia
Poppæa,” but the object of this law was not, as St.
Ambrose seems to imply, to check celibacy, but to meet the growing
licentiousness of the age, which avoided the obligations of married
life while indulging in every kind of impure abominations. that zealous in pursuit of crimes they
might punish the study of virtues; under the pretext, indeed, of
seeking increase of the population, but in reality that they might put
an end to the purpose of chastity. For the soldier, when his time
is ended, lays aside his arms, and leaving the rank which he held, is
dismissed as a veteran to his own land, that he may obtain rest after
the toils of a laborious life, and cause others to be more ready to
undergo labour in the hope of future repose. The labourer, too,
as he grows too old, entrusts the guiding of the plough to others, and
worn out by the toil of his youth, enjoys in his old age that which his
foresight has cared for, still ready to prune the vine rather than to
press the grapes, so as to check the luxuriance of early life, and to
cut off with his pruning knife the wantonness of youth, teaching, as it
were, that blessed fruitfulness is to be aimed at even in the
vine.