Canon LIII.
Whereas
the spiritual
relationship is greater than fleshly affinity; and since it has come to
our knowledge that in some places certain persons who become sponsors
to children in holy salvation-bearing baptism, afterwards contract
matrimony with their mothers (being widows), we decree that for the
future nothing of this sort is to be done. But if any, after the
present canon, shall be observed to do this, they must, in the first
place, desist from this unlawful marriage, and then be subjected to the
penalties of fornicators.
Notes.
Ancient Epitome of Canon
LIII.
Godfathers cannot be permitted to be married with the
mother of their godchildren. If any one is so joined, let him do
penance after separation.
Johnson.
(
Clergyman’s Vade Mecum
.)
The imperial law forbade the adopter parent to marry his
or her adopted son or daughter; for the godchild was thought a sort of
an adopted child. See Justin.,
Institut
., Lib. I.,
Tit.
x.
Van Espen however refers, and to my mind with greater
truth, to Justinian’s law (xxvj of the
Cod. de Nuptiis
)
which forbids the marriage of a man with his nurse or with whoever
received him from the font, “because,” says the law,
“nothing can so incite to parental affection, and therefore
induce a just prohibition of marriage, than a bond of this sort by
which, through God’s meditation, their souls are bound
together.”