when there is no beam in thine own eye, thou seest rightly whatever may be in thy brother’s
eye; and art uneasy, till thou cast out of thy brother’s eye what thou seest to hurt it. The light
that is in thee, doth not allow thee to neglect thy brother’s light. Whereas if thou hate, and
wouldest correct him, how dost thou improve his light, when thou hast lost thine own light?
For the same Scripture, where it is written, “Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer,”
hath expressly told us this also. “He that hateth his brother is in darkness even until now.”2734
Hatred then is darkness. Now it cannot but be, that he who hateth another, should first injure
himself. For him he endeavours to hurt outwardly, he lays himself waste inwardly. Now in
proportion as our soul is of more value than our body, so much the more ought we to provide
for it, that it be not hurt. But he that hateth another, doth hurt his own soul. And what would
he do to him whom he hateth? What would he do? He takes away his money, can he take
his faith away? he wounds his good fame, can he wound his conscience? Whatever injury
he does, is but external; now observe what his injury to himself is? For he who hateth another
is an enemy to himself within. But because he is not sensible of what harm he is doing to
himself, he is violent against another, and that the more dangerously, that he is not sensible
of the evil he is doing to himself; because by this very violence he has lost the power of per-
ception. Thou art violent against thine enemy; by this violence of thine he is spoiled, and
thou art wicked. Great is the difference between the two. He hath lost his money, thou thine
innocence. Ask which hath suffered the heavier loss? He hath lost a thing that was sure to
perish, and thou art become one who must now perish thyself.
4. Therefore ought we to rebuke in love; not with any eager desire to injure, but with
an earnest care to amend. If we be so minded, most excellently do we practise that which
we have been recommended to-day; “If thy brother shall sin against thee, rebuke him between
thee and him alone.”2735 Why dost thou rebuke him? Because thou art grieved, that he
should have sinned against thee? God forbid. If from love of thyself thou do it, thou doest
nothing. If from love to him thou do it, thou doest excellently. In fact, observe in these words
themselves, for the love of whom thou oughtest to do it, whether of thyself or him. “If he
shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.” Do it for his sake then, that thou mayest
“gain” him. If by so doing thou “gain” him, hadst thou not done it, he would have been lost.
How is it then that most men disregard these sins, and say, “What great thing have I done?
I have only sinned against man.” Disregard them not. Thou hast sinned against man; but
wouldest thou know that in sinning against man thou art lost. If he, against whom thou hast
sinned, have “rebuked thee between thee and him alone,” and thou hast listened to him, he
hath “gained” thee. What can “hath gained thee,” mean; but that thou hadst been lost, if he
had not gained thee. For if thou wouldest not have been lost, how hath he gained thee? Let
2734 1 John ii. 9.
2735 Matt. xviii. 15.
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