85. In like manner the widow, as a veteran, having
served her time, though she lays aside the arms of married life, yet
orders the peace of the whole house: though now freed from
carrying burdens, she is yet watchful for the younger who are to be
married; and with the thoughtfulness of old age she arranges where more
pains would be profitable, where produce would be more abundant, which
is fitted for the marriage bond. And so, if the field is
entrusted to the elder rather than to the younger, why should you think
that it is more advantageous to be a married woman than a widow?
But, if the persecutors of the faith have also been the persecutors of
widowhood, most certainly by those who hold the faith, widowhood is not
to be shunned as a penalty, but to be esteemed as a reward.