1. In praising my
sister, I shall pay honour to one of my own family; yet my praise will
not be false, because it is given to a relation, but, because it is
true, will be worthy of commendation, and its truth is based not only
upon its justice, but upon well-known facts. For, even if I
wished, I should not be permitted to be partial; since everyone who
hears me stands, like a skilful critic, between my oration and the
truth, to discountenance exaggeration, yet, if he be a man of justice,
demanding what is really due. So that my fear is not of
outrunning the truth, but, on the contrary, of falling short of it, and
lessening her just repute by the extreme inadequacy of my panegyric;
for it is a hard task to match her excellences with suitable action and
words. Let us not then be so unjust as to praise every
characteristic of other folk, and disparage really valuable qualities
because they are our own, so as to make some men gain by their absence
of kindred with us, while others suffer for their relationship.
For justice would be violated alike by the praise of the one and the
neglect of the other, whereas if we make the truth our standard and
rule, and look to her alone, disregarding all the objects of the vulgar
and the mean, we shall praise or pass over everything according to its
merits.