127. In the ordinary course of things, too, the
conferring of a benefit on the poor is of more use than when it is
conferred on the rich. The rich man scorns the benefit and is
ashamed to feel indebted for a favour. Nay, moreover, whatever is
offered to him he takes as due to his merits, as though only a just
debt were paid him; or else he thinks it was but given because the
giver expected a still greater return to be made him by the rich
man. So, in accepting a kindness, the
rich man, on that very ground, thinks that he
has given more than he ever received. The poor man, however,
though he has no money wherewith he can repay, at least shows his
gratitude. And herein it is certain that he returns more than he
received. For money is paid in coins, but gratitude never fails;
money grows less by payment, but gratitude fails when held back, and is
preserved when given to others. Next—a thing the rich man
avoids—the poor man owns that he feels bound by the debt.
He really thinks help has been given him, not that it has been offered
in return for his honour. He considers that his children have
been again given him, that his life is restored and his family
preserved. How much better, then, is it to confer benefits upon
the good than on the ungrateful.