4. Wherefore, I cannot be ungrateful
concerning my brother, for he has given back that which was common to
nature, and has gained what is peculiar to grace alone. For who
would refuse the common lot? Who would grieve that a pledge
specially entrusted to him is taken away, since the Father gave up His
only Son to death for us? Who would think that he ought to be
excepted from the lot of dying, who has not been excepted from the lot
of being born? It is a great mystery of divine love, that not
even in Christ was exception made of the death of the body; and
although He was the Lord of nature, He refused not the law of the flesh
which He had taken upon Him. It is necessary for me to die, for
Him it was not necessary. Could not He Who said of His servant,
“If I will that he tarry thus until I come, what is that to
thee?” S. John xxi. 22. not have remained
as He was, if so He willed? But by continuance of my
brother’s life here, he would have destroyed his reward and my
sacrifice. What is a greater consolation to us than that
according to the flesh Christ also died? Or why should I weep too
violently for my brother, knowing as I do that that divine love could
not die.