Chapter
XIV.—Virginity a Gift of God: the Purpose of Virginity Not Rashly
to Be Adopted by Any One.
Consider besides how, in addition to the words
already quoted, he commends the state of virginity as a gift of
God. Wherefore he rejects those of the more incontinent, who,
under the influence of vain-glory, would advance to this state,
advising them to marry, lest in their time of manly strength, the flesh
stirring up the desires and passions, they should be goaded on to
defile the soul. For let us consider what he lays down:
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“But
if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely towards his
virgin,” he says,” if she pass the flower of her age, and
need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let him
marry;” properly here preferring marriage to
“uncomeliness,” in the case of those who had chosen the
state of virginity, but afterwards finding it intolerable and grievous,
and in word boasting of their perseverance before men, out of shame,
but indeed no longer having the power to persevere in the life of a
eunuch. But for him who of his own free will and purpose decides
to preserve his flesh in virgin purity, “having no
necessity,”
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that is,
passion calling forth his loins to intercourse, for there are, as it
seems, differences in men’s bodies; such a one contending and
struggling, and zealously abiding by his profession, and admirably
fulfilling it, he exhorts to abide and to preserve it, according the
highest prize to virginity. For he that is able, he says, and
ambitious to preserve his flesh pure, does
better; but he that is unable, and enters into
marriage lawfully, and does not indulge in secret corruption, does
well. And now enough has been said on these subjects.
Let any one who will, take in his hand the Epistle to
the Corinthians, and, examining all its passages one by one, then
consider what we have said, comparing them together, as to whether
there is not a perfect harmony and agreement between them. These
things, according to my power, O Arete, I offer to thee as my
contribution on the subject of chastity.
Euboulios
. Through many
things, O Gregorion, she has scarcely come to the subject, having
measured and crossed a mighty sea of words.
Gregorion
. So it seems;
but come, I must mention the rest of what was said in order, going
through it and repeating it, while I seem to have the sound of it
dwelling in my ears, before it flies away and escapes; for the
remembrance of things lately heard is easily effaced from the aged.
Euboulios
. Say on, then;
for we have come to have the pleasure of hearing these discourses.
Gregorion
. And then after,
as you observed, Thaleia had descended from her smooth and unbroken
course to the earth, Theopatra, she said, followed her in order, and
spoke as follows.
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1 Cor. vii. 36
. [On
virginity
, see
Taylor, i. 426, ed. London, 1844.]
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1 Cor. vii. 37
.