Virtue must never be given up for the sake of a
friend. If, however, one has to bear witness against a friend, it
must be done with caution. Between friends what candour is needed
in opening the heart, what magnanimity in suffering, what freedom in
finding fault! Friendship is the guardian of virtues, which are
not to be found but in men of like character. It must be mild in
rebuking and averse to seeking its own advantage; whence it happens
that true friends are scarce among the rich. What is the dignity
of friendship? The treachery of a friend, as it is worse, so it
is also more hateful than another’s, as is recognized from the
example of Judas and of Job’s friends.