given her no small consolation, that of childbearing. And if it be said that this is of nature,
so is that1191 also of nature; for not only that which is of nature has been granted, but also
the bringing up of children. “If they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety”;
that is, if after childbearing, they keep them1192 in charity and purity. By these means they
will have no small reward on their account, because they have trained up wrestlers for the
service of Christ. By holiness he means good life, modesty, and sobriety.
Chap. iii. ver. 1. “This is a faithful saying.”
This relates to the present subject, not to what follows, respecting the office of a Bishop.
For as it was doubted, he affirms it to be a true saying, that fathers may be benefited by the
virtue of their children, and mothers also, when they have brought them up well. But what
if she be herself addicted to wickedness and vice? Will she then be benefited by the bringing
up of children? Is it not probable that she will bring them up to be like herself? It is not
therefore of any woman, but of the virtuous woman, that it is said she shall receive a great
recompense for this also.
Moral. Hear this, ye fathers and mothers, that your bringing up of children shall not
lose its reward. This also he says, as he proceeds, “Well reported of for good works; if she
have brought up children.” (1 Tim. v. 10.) Among other commendations he reckons this
one, for it is no light praise to devote to God those children which are given them of God.
For if the basis, the foundation which they lay be good, great will be their reward; as great,
if they neglect it, will be their punishment. It was on account of his children that Eli perished.
For he ought to have admonished them, and indeed he did admonish them, but not as he
ought; but from his unwillingness to give them pain he destroyed both himself and them.
Hear this, ye fathers, bring your children up with great care “in the nurture and admonition
of the Lord.” (Eph. vi. 4.) Youth is wild, and requires many governors, teachers, directors,
attendants, and tutors; and after all these, it is a happiness if it be restrained. For as a horse
not broken in, or a wild beast untamed, such is youth. But if from the beginning, from the
earliest age, we fix it in good rules, much pains will not be required afterwards; for good
habits formed will be to them as a law. Let us not suffer them to do anything which is
agreeable, but injurious; nor let us indulge them, as forsooth but children. Especially let us
train them in chastity, for there is the very bane of youth. For this many struggles, much
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attention will be necessary. Let us take wives for them early, so that their brides may receive
their bodies pure and unpolluted, so their loves will be more ardent. He that is chaste before
marriage, much more will he be chaste after it; and he that practiced fornication before, will
practice it after marriage. “All bread,” it is said, “is sweet to the fornicator.” (Ecclus. xxiii.
1191 The sense is obscure, but he seems to mean, “the ordinary way of salvation,” and by “consolation,” a
way of obtaining relief from the consequences of sin. See on Stat. Hom. ii. 19, and παραμυθία elsewhere.
1192 i.e. their children. Colb. ἑαυτοὺς, which cannot be right.
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