down by increasingly harsh commands; but she would never be able to revenge herself on
those who despise and neglect her; so much fiercer is she than any tyrant and wild beast.
For tyrants and wild animals are often mollified by humouring, but her fury is greatest when
we are most complaisant to her, and if she finds any one who will listen to her, and yield to
her in everything there is no kind of command from which in future she can be induced to
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abstain. Moreover she has also another ally whom one would not do wrong to call her
daughter. For after she herself has grown to maturity and fairly taken root amongst us, she
then produces arrogance, a thing which is no less able than herself to drive the soul of those
who possess it into headlong ruin.
6. Tell me then dost thou lament this that God hath reserved thee from such a cruel
bondage, and that He has barred every avenue against these pestilential diseases? For whilst
thy husband was living they ceased not continually assaulting the thoughts of thy heart, but
since his death they have no starting point whence they can lay hold of thy understanding.
This then is a discipline which ought to be practised in future—to abstain from lamenting
the withdrawal of these evils, and from hankering after the bitter tyranny which they exercise.
For where they blow a heavy blast they upset all things from the foundation and shatter
them to pieces; and just as many prostitutes, although by nature ill favoured and ugly, do
yet by means of enamels and pigments excite the feelings of the youthful whilst they are still
tender, and when they have got them under their control treat them more insolently than
any slave; so also do these passions, vainglory and arrogance, defile the souls of men more
than any other kind of pollution.
On this account also wealth has seemed to the majority of men to be a good thing; at
least when it is stripped of this passion of vainglory it will no longer seem desirable. At any
rate those who have been permitted to obtain in the midst of their poverty popular glory
have no longer preferred wealth, but rather have despised much gold when it was bestowed
upon them. And you have no need to learn from me who these men were, for you know
them better than I do, Epaminondas, Socrates, Aristeides, Diogenes, Krates who turned his
own land into a sheep walk.359 The others indeed, inasmuch as it was not possible for them
to get rich, saw glory brought to them in the midst of their poverty, and straightway devoted
themselves to it, but this man threw away even what he possessed; so infatuated were they
in the pursuit of this cruel monster. Let us not then weep because God has rescued us from
this shameful thraldom which is an object of derision and of much reproach; for there is
nothing splendid in it save the name it bears, and in reality it places those who possess it in
a position which belies its appellation, and there is no one who does not laugh to scorn the
359 Krates was a cynic philosopher, a disciple of Diogenes. He flourished about 330 B.C. He was heir to a
large fortune, but bestowed the whole of it upon his native city Thebes. Diogenes Laertius relates many curious
stories about him.
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Letter to a Young Widow.