1. Since I have
treated of the honour of virgins in three books, it is fitting now, my
brethren, that a treatise concerning widows should come in order; for I
ought not to leave them without honour, nor to separate them from the
commendation belonging to virgins, since the voice of the Apostle has
joined them to virgins, according to what is written: “The
unmarried woman and the virgin careth for the things of the Lord, that
she may be holy both in body and in spirit.” 1 Cor. vii. 34. For in a certain manner the
inculcation of virginity is strengthened by the example of
widows. They who have preserved their marriage bed undefiled are
a testimony to virgins that chastity is to be preserved for God.
And it is almost a mark of no less virtue to abstain from marriage,
which was once a delight, than to remain ignorant of the pleasures of
wedlock. They are strong in each point, in that they regret not
wedlock, the faith of which they keep, and entangle not themselves with
wedded pleasures, lest they appear weak and not able to take care of
themselves.