That the aged men— It is believed by some that aged men refers to those over fifty. Paul list six lessons for Titus to focus on among this group. (1) be sober, —The older Christian man has a special responsibility to the congregation. He is to remain faithful and vigilant in the faith. He is to be a living example to the younger Christian and a source for counsel. He is not to use his age as a crutch to lean upon throughout his remaining days. (2) grave, — He is to be dignified and worthy of respect by all. His speech, actions, and dress should all reflect the serious attention he pays to maintaining reverence to his Lord and Savior. (3) temperate, —This means moderate and prudent. It speaks of one who controls his passions and affections, so as not to be controlled by them. Older Christian men should have a firm grasp on the true value of life and be keenly aware that the cost of self-indulgence far exceeds its worth. (4) sound in faith, — Sound is a medical term meaning healthy. Thus he is to have a healthy faith. A healthy faith is one that continues to grow. Now faith is assurance of things hoped for, a conviction of things not seen . A man who is content to sit back and quietly ride out his remaining years on the back pew is not exhibiting healthy faith. This man should be vigilant in his study so that his faith remains strong unto death. (5) sound in charity, — Charity is translated from the Greek word agapē, meaning benevolence, affection, or love. Therefore he is to have a healthy love for others. His love for his fellowman should grow every year. This should be a giving love. He should be giving of his time, experience and advice. (6) sound in patience. — This is one who has serenity of spirit. He is steadfast in the faith and persistent in the truth of God’s word. The trials and tribulations of this life, if properly handled, can serve to make us stronger. The older Christian, by virtue of his growth, should be able to bear more and more. As the physical body diminishes, the faith in the older Christian should continue to grow. 2 Corinthians 4:16 For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward [man] is renewed day by day.