Elsewhere indeed he says, “I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as
a chaste virgin to Christ.” (2 Cor. xi. 2.) After having given their names to Him,1269 “they
will marry,” he says, “having condemnation, because they have cast off their first faith.” By
faith he means, fidelity to their covenant. As if he had said, They have been false to Christ,
they have dishonored Him, and transgressed His covenant. “And withal they learn to be
idle.”
Thus he commands not only men, but women also, to work. For idleness is the teacher
of every sin. And not only are they exposed to this condemnation, but to other sins. If
therefore it is unbecoming for a married woman “to go from house to house,” much more
is it for a virgin. “And not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which
they ought not. I will therefore that the younger widows marry, bear children, guide the
house.”
What then happens, when the care for the husband is withdrawn, and the care to please
God does not constrain them? They naturally become idlers, tattlers, and busybodies. For
he who does not attend to his own concerns will be meddling with those of others, even as
he who minds his own business will take no account of and have no care about the affairs
of another. And nothing is so unbecoming to a woman, as to busy herself in the concerns
of others, and it is no less unbecoming to a man. This is a great sign of impudence and for-
wardness.
“I will therefore,” he says, (since they themselves wish it,) “that the younger widows
marry, bear children, guide the house.”
This course is at least preferable to the other. They ought indeed to be concerned for
the things of God, they ought to preserve their faith. But since they do not this, it is better
to avoid a worse course. God is not dishonored by their marrying again, and they do not
fall into those practices, which have been censured. From such a widowhood, no good could
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arise, but good may come out of this marriage. Hence the women will be able to correct that
indolence and vanity of mind.
But why, since some have fallen away, does he not say that much care is to be taken of
them, that they may not fall into the error he has mentioned? Why has he commanded them
to marry? Because marriage is not forbidden, and it is a safeguard to them. Wherefore he
adds, that they “give none occasion,” or handle, “to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
For some are already turned aside after Satan.” Such widows as these then he would have
refused, not meaning that there should be no younger widows, but that there should be no
adulteresses, that none should be idle, busy-bodies, speaking things that they ought not,
that no occasion should be given to the adversary. Had nothing of this kind taken place, he
would not have forbidden them.
1269 i.e. by the profession of a devout widowhood.
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