Commandment Fourth.
On Putting One’s Wife Away for Adultery.
Chap. I.
“I charge you,” said he, “to guard your chastity, and let no thought enter your heart of
another man’s wife, or of fornication, or of similar iniquities; for by doing this you commit
a great sin. But if you always remember your own wife, you will never sin. For if this
thought165 enter your heart, then you will sin; and if, in like manner, you think other wicked
thoughts, you commit sin. For this thought is great sin in a servant of God. But if any one
commit this wicked deed, he works death for himself. Attend, therefore, and refrain from
this thought; for where purity dwells, there iniquity ought not to enter the heart of a righteous
man.” I said to him, “Sir, permit me to ask you a few questions.”166 “Say on,” said he. And
I said to him, “Sir, if any one has a wife who trusts in the Lord, and if he detect her in adultery,
does the man sin if he continue to live with her?” And he said to me, “As long as he remains
ignorant of her sin, the husband commits no transgression in living with her. But if the
husband know that his wife has gone astray, and if the woman does not repent, but persists
in her fornication, and yet the husband continues to live with her, he also is guilty of her
crime, and a sharer in her adultery.” And I said to him, “What then, sir, is the husband to
do, if his wife continue in her vicious practices?” And he said, “The husband should put her
away, and remain by himself. But if he put his wife away and marry another, he also commits
adultery.”167 And I said to him, “What if the woman put away should repent, and wish to
return to her husband: shall she not be taken back by her husband?” And he said to me,
“Assuredly. If the husband do not take her back, he sins, and brings a great sin upon himself;
for he ought to take back the sinner who has repented. But not frequently.168 For there is
but one repentance to the servants of God. In case, therefore, that the divorced wife may
repent, the husband ought not to marry another, when his wife has been put away. In this
165 This thought. [Matt. v. 28. See, further, Simil. ix. cap. II.] The thought of another man’s wife or of fornic-
ation.
166 Questions. “I charge you,” said he, “to guard your chastity, and let no thought enter your heart of another
man’s marriage (i.e., wife), or of fornication, for this produces a great transgression. But be always mindful of
the Lord at all hours, and you will never sin. For if this very wicked thought enter your heart, you commit a
great sin, and they who practice such deeds follow the way of death. Take heed, therefore, and refrain from this
thought. For where chastity remains in the heart of a righteous man, never ought there to arise any evil thought.”
I said to him,” Sir, permit me to say a few words to you.” “Say on,” said he.—Vat.
167 Matt. v. 32, xix. 9.
168 [Not frequently … one repentance. True penitence is a habit of life. An apparent safe-guard against the
reproaches of Montanism, and a caution not to turn forgiveness into a momentary sponge without avoiding
renewed transgression.]
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