I have made thee My friend? Why, by thy wicked prayers dost thou teach Me to do, what I
did not in thine own case?” Yea rather God saith to thee, “Let me teach thee to imitate Me.
When I was hanging on the Cross, I said, ‘Forgive them, for they know not what they do.’3029
This lesson I taught My brave soldier. Be thou My recruit against the devil. In no other way
wilt thou fight at all unconquerably, unless thou dost pray for thine enemies. Yet by all
means ask this, yea ask this very thing, ask that thou mayest persecute thine enemy; but ask
it with discernment; distinguish well what thou askest. See, a man is thine enemy; answer
me, what is it in him which is at enmity with thee? Is it in this, that he is a man, that he is
at enmity with thee? No. What then? That he is evil. In that he is a man, in that he is that I
made him, he is not at enmity with thee.” He saith to thee, “I did not make man evil; he
became evil by disobedience, who obeyed the devil3030 rather than God. What he has made
himself, is at enmity with thee; in that he is evil, he is thine enemy; not in that he is a man.
For I hear the word “man,” and “evil;” the one is the name of nature, the other of sin; the
sin I cure; and the nature I preserve.” And so thy God saith to thee, “See, I do avenge thee,
I do slay thine enemy; I take away that which makes him evil, I preserve that which constitutes
him a man: now if I shall have made him a good man, have I not slain thine enemy, and
made him thy friend?” So ask on what thou art asking, not that the men may perish, but
that these their enmities may perish. For if thou pray for this, that the man may die; it is the
prayer of one wicked man against another; and when thou dost say, “Slay the wicked one,”
God answereth thee, “Which of you?”
10. Extend your love then, and limit it not to your wives and children. Such love is found
even in beasts and sparrows. Ye know the sparrows and the swallows how they love their
mates, how together they hatch their eggs, and nourish their young together, by a sort of
free3031 and natural kindliness, and with no thought of a return. For the sparrow does not
say, “I will nourish my young, that when I am grown old, they may feed me.” He has no
such thought; he loves and feeds them, for the love of them; displays the affection of a parent,
and looks for no return. And so, I know, I am sure, do ye love your children. “For the children
ought not to lay up for the parents, but the parents for the children.”3032 Yea upon this plea
it is that many of you excuse your covetousness, that ye are getting for your children, and
are laying by for them.3033 But I say, extend your love, let this love grow; for to love wives
and children, is not yet that “wedding garment.” Have faith to Godward. First love God.
Extend yourselves out to God; and whomsoever ye shall be able, draw on to God. There is
3029 Luke xxiii. 34.
3030 Zabulo; Lactant. De Mort. Pers. 16.
3031 Grata.
3032 2 Cor. xii. 14.
3033 Vid. Serm. xxxvi. (lxxxvi. Ben.) 11 (ix., x.).
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