to be anything great, nor gold to be better than clay. For the value of material things is not
owing to their nature, but to our estimate of them. For if any one would inquire carefully,
iron is much more necessary than gold. For the one contributes to no need of our life, but
the other has furnished us with the greater part of our needs, ministering to countless arts;
and why do I speak of a comparison between gold and iron? For these stones540 are more
necessary than precious stones. For of those nothing serviceable could be made, but out of
these, houses and walls and cities are erected. But do thou show me what gain could be de-
rived from these pearls, rather what harm would not happen? For in order that thou mayest
wear one pearl drop, countless poor people are pinched with hunger. What excuse wilt thou
hit upon? what pardon?
Dost thou wish to adorn thy face? Do so not with pearls, but with modesty, and dignity.
So thy countenance will be more full of grace in the eyes of thy husband. For the other kind
of adorning is wont to plunge him into a suspicion of jealousy, and into enmity, quarrel-
someness and strife, for nothing is more annoying than a face which is suspected. But the
ornament of compassion and modesty casts out all evil suspicion, and will draw thy partner
to thee more strongly than any bond. For natural beauty does not impart such comeliness
to the face as does the disposition of him who beholds it, and nothing is so wont to produce
that disposition as modesty and dignity; so that if any woman be comely, and her husband
be ill affected towards her, she appears to him the most worthless of all women; and if she
do not happen to be fair of face, but her husband be well affected towards her, she appears
more comely than all. For sentence is given not according to the nature of what is beheld,
but according to the disposition of the beholders. Adorn thy face then with modesty, dignity,
pity, lovingkindness, charity, affection for thy husband, forbearance, meekness, endurance
of ill. These are the tints of virtue. By means of these thou wilt attract angels not human
beings to be thy lovers. By means of these thou hast God to commend thee, and when God
receives thee, he will certainly win over thy husband for thee. For if the wisdom of a man
illuminates his countenance,541 much more does the virtue of a woman illuminate her face;
and if thou considerest this to be a great ornament, tell me what will be the advantage of
the pearls in that day? But why is it necessary to speak of that day, since it is possible to show
all this from what happens now. When, then, they who thought fit to revile the emperor
were dragged to the judgment hall, and were in danger of extreme measures being taken,
then the mothers, and the wives, laying aside their necklaces, and their golden ornaments,
and pearls, and all adornment, and golden raiment, wearing a simple and mean dress, and
besprinkled with ashes, prostrated themselves before the doors of the judgment hall and
thus won over the judges; and if in the case of these earthly courts of justice, the golden or-
540 Alluding probably to the stones of the building in which he was speaking.
541 Eccles. viii. 1.
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