Chapter VII.
To
these sayings Postumianus
replies: “While listening to you, O Gaul, I have for a long time
been admiring the faith of the queen; but to what does that statement
of yours lead, that no woman was ever said to have stood more close to
Martin? For let us consider that that queen not only stood near him,
but even ministered unto him. I really fear lest those persons who
freely mingle among women should to some extent defend themselves by
that example.”
Then said the Gaul: “Why do you not notice, as
grammarians are wont to teach us, the place, the time, and the person?
For only set before your eyes the picture of one kept in the palace of
the emperor importuned by prayers, constrained by the faith of the
queen, and bound by the necessities of the time, to do his utmost that
he might set free those shut up in prison, might restore those who had
been sent into exile, and might recover goods that had been taken
away,—of how much importance do you think that these things
should have appeared to a bishop, so as to lead him, in order to the
accomplishment of them all, to abate not a little of the rigor of his
general scheme of life?
However, as you think that some will make
a bad use of the example thus furnished them, I shall only say that
those will be truly happy if they do not fall short of the excellence
of the example in question. For let them consider that the facts of the
case are these: once in his life only, and that when in his seventieth
year, was Martin served and waited upon at his meals,
not
by a
free sort of widow, nor by a wanton virgin, but by a queen, who lived
under the authority of a husband, and who was supported in her conduct
by the entreaties of her husband, that she might be allowed so to act.
It is further to be observed that she did not recline with Martin at
the entertainment, nor did she venture even to partake in the feast,
but simply gave her services in waiting upon him. Learn, therefore, the
proper course; let a matron serve thee, and not rule thee; and let her
serve, but not recline along with thee; just as Martha, of whom we
read, waited upon the Lord without being called to partake in the
feast: nay, she who chose rather simply to hear the word was preferred
to her that served. But in the case of Martin, the queen spoken of
fulfilled both parts: she both served like Martha and listened like
Mary. If any one, then, desires to make use of this example, let him
keep to it in all particulars; let the cause be the same, the person
the same, the service the same, and the entertainment the
same,—and let the thing occur once only in one’s whole
life.”