Moral. Let us then not be distressed at the evils that happen to us. This is sobriety of
mind. “In the season of temptation,” he says, “make not haste.” (Ecclus. ii. 2.) Many have
their several griefs at home, and we share in each other’s sorrows, though not in their sources.
For one is unhappy on account of his wife, another on account of his child, or his domestic,
another of his friend, another of his enemy, another of his neighbor, another from some
loss. And various are the causes of sorrow, so that we can find no one free from trouble and
unhappiness of some kind or other, but some have greater sorrows and some less. Let us
not therefore be impatient, nor think ourselves only to be unhappy.
For there is no such thing in this mortal life as being exempt from sorrow. If not to-day,
yet to-morrow; if not to-morrow, yet some later day trouble comes. For as one cannot sail,
I mean, over a long sea, and not feel disquietude, so it is not possible to pass through this
life, without experience of sorrow, yea though you name a rich man; for in that he is rich,
he hath many occasions of inordinate desires,1318 yea, though the king himself, since he too
is ruled by many, and cannot do all that he would. Many favors he grants contrary to his
wishes, and more than all men is obliged to do what he would not. How so? Because he has
many about him who wish to receive his gifts. And just think how1319 great is his chagrin,
when he is desirous to effect something, but is unable, either from fear or suspicion, or
hindered by enemies or by friends. Often when he has succeeded in achieving some end,
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he loses all the pleasure of it, from many becoming at enmity with him. Again, do you think
that they are free from grief, who live a life of ease? It is impossible. As a man cannot escape
death, so neither can he escape sorrow. How many troubles must they endure, which we
cannot express in words, and which they only can know by experience! How many have
prayed a thousand times to die, in the midst of their wealth and luxury! For luxury by no
means puts men out of the reach of grief: it is rather the very thing to produce sorrows,
diseases, and uneasiness, often when there is no real ground for it. For when such is the
habit of the soul, it is apt to grieve even without a cause. Physicians say that from a weak
state of the stomach arise sorrows1320 without any occasion; and does not the like happen
to ourselves, to feel uneasy, without knowing any cause for it? In short, we can find no one
who is exempted from sorrow. And if he has less occasion for grief than ourselves, yet he
thinks otherwise, for he feels his own sorrows, more than those of other men. As they who
suffer pain in any part of their bodies, think that their sufferings exceed their neighbor’s.
He that has a disease of the eye, thinks there is nothing so painful, and he that has a disorder
in the stomach, considers that the sorest of diseases, and each thinks that the heaviest of
sufferings, with which he is himself afflicted. So it is with sorrow, each thinks his own present
1318 B. and Sav. Mar. ἀθυμιῶν, “of dejections.” Edd. ἐπιθυμιῶν.
1319 Sav. Tr. “and how great.”
1320 Or, “pains.”
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