HOMILY XV.] HOMILIES ON TIMOTHY. 459
HOMILY XV.
i TIMOTHY
"
But the younger widows refuse : for when they have
begun to wax wanton against Christ, they will marry ;
having condemnation, because they have cast off their
first faith. And withal they learn to be idle, wander
ing about from house to house; and not only idle,
but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things
which they ought not. I will therefore that the
younger widows marry, bear children, guide the
house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak
reproachfully. For some are already turned aside
after Satan."
PAUL having discoursed much concerning
widows, and having settled the age at which
they were to be admitted, saying, "Let not a
widow be taken into the number under three
score years old," and having described the
qualifications of a widow,
"
If she have brought
up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she
have washed the Saints feet," proceeds now to
say, "But the younger widows refuse." But
concerning virgins, though the case of their
falling is a much more gross one, he has said
nothing of this kind, and rightly. For they had
enrolled themselves on higher views, and the
work with them proceeded from a greater eleva
tion of mind. Therefore the receiving of stran
gers, and the washing of the Saints feet, he
has represented by
"
attending upon the Lord
without distraction"
1
(i Cor. vii. 34, 35), and
by saying, "The unmarried careth for the things
that belong to the Lord." (i Cor. vii. 34, 35.)
And if he has not limited a particular age for
them, it is most likely because that point is
settled by what he has said in this case. But
indeed, as I said, the choice of virginity pro
ceeded from a higher purpose. Besides, in this
case there had been falls, and thus they had
given occasion for his rule, but nothing of that
kind had occurred among the virgins. For that
some had already fallen away is plain, in that he
says, "When they have begun to wax wanton
against Christ, they will
2
marry
"
; and again,
"
For some have already turned aside after
Satan."
"
The younger widows refuse, for when they
have begun to wax wanton against Christ, they
will marry
"
; that is, when they have become
scornful 3 and luxurious. For as in the case of
a just man, we might say,
"
Let her depart, for
she has become another s."
*
He shows there-
1
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4 He seems to mean that a professed widow, giving up her pro
fession, is like a woman betrothed to a man, and then disliking him,
and giving her affections to another.
v. 11-15.
fore that though they chose widowhood, it was
not the choice of their judgment. So then a
widow, by the state of widowhood, is espoused
to Christ. For He has said,
"
I am the defender
of the widows and the father of the orphans."
(Ps. Ixviii. 5.) He shows that they do not
choose widowhood as they ought, but wax wan
ton : however he bears with them. Elsewhere
indeed he says,
"
I have espoused you to one
husband, that I may present you as a chaste
virgin to Christ." (2 Cor. xi. 2.) After having
given their names to Him,5 " they will marry,"
he says,
"
having condemnation, because they
have cast off their first faith." By faith he means,
fidelity to their covenant. As if he had said,
They have been false to Christ, they have dis
honored Him, and transgressed His covenant.
"And withal they learn to be idle."
Thus he commands not only men, but women
also, to work. For idleness is the teacher of
every sin. And not only are they exposed to
this condemnation, but to other sins. If there
fore it is unbecoming for a married woman
"
to
go from house to house," much more is it for a
virgin. "And not only idle, but tattlers also
and busybodies, speaking things which they
ought not. I will therefore that the younger
widows marry, bear children, guide the house."
What then happens, when the care for the
husband is withdrawn, and the care to please
God does not constrain them ? They naturally
become idlers, tattlers, and busybodies. For
he who does not attend to his own concerns will
be meddling with those of others, even as he
who minds his own business will take no account
of and have no care about the affairs of another.
And nothing is so unbecoming to a woman, as
to busy herself in the concerns of others, and
it is no less unbecoming to a man. This is a
great sign of impudence and forwardness.
"
I will therefore," he says, (since they them
selves wish it,)
"
that the younger widows marry,
bear children, guide the house."
This course is at least preferable to the other.
They ought indeed to be concerned for the
things of God, they ought to preserve their faith.
But since they do not this, it is better to avoid
a worse course. God is not dishonored by their
marrying again, and they do not fall into those
practices, which have been censured. From
such a widowhood, no good could arise, but
good may come out of this marriage. Hence
5 i.e. by the profession of a devout widowhood.