John Chrysostom : "Let the Deacons be husbands of one wife." This must be understood therefore to relate to Deaconesses. For that order is necessary and useful and honorable in the Church. Observe how he requires the same virtue from the Deacons, as from the Bishops, for though they were not of equal rank, they must equally be blameless; equally pure. "Ruling their children and their own houses well." Everywhere they are required to rule their children well, that others may not be scandalized by their misconduct. — Homily on 1 Timothy 11 Oecumenius : Let deacons be the husbands of one wife, managing their children and their own households well. For those who serve well gain for themselves a good standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus. husbands of one wife. You see how the same things are required from deacons as from bishops? These things must also be accepted concerning deaconesses. managing their children and their own households well. He places this everywhere, wishing to bring the reproof upon them from home. For those who serve well. Those who have entrusted themselves to the lesser things will quickly come to progress and boldness in Christ. and great confidence. But who would have confidence in the faith of Christ, except the one who lives with faith and a righteous life? — COMMENTARY ON 1 TIMOTHY