154 WORKS OF ST. CHRYSOSTOM. [HOMILY XXI.
his arguments to him, advising him to attach her
to himself by the power of love,) so, I say, here
also, he refers the efficiency to him, by saying,
"
But bring them up in the chastening and ad
monition of the Lord." Thou seest that where
there are spiritual ties, the natural ties will follow.
Do you wish your son to be obedient ? From
the very first
"
Bring him up in the chastening
and admonition of the Lord." Never deem it
an unnecessary thing that he should be a diligent
hearer of the divine Scriptures. For there the
first thing he hears will be this,
"
Honor thy
father and thy mother" ; so that this makes for
thee. Never say, this is the business of monks.
Am I making a monk of him? No. There is
no need he should become a monk.
1
Why be so
afraid of a thing so replete with so much advan
tage? Make him a Christian. For it is of all
things necessary for laymen
2
to be acquainted
with the lessons derived from this source ; but
especially for .children. For theirs is an age full
of folly ; and to this folly are superadded the bad
examples derived from the heathen tales, where
they are made acquainted with those heroes so
admired amongst them, slaves of their passions,
and cowards with regard to death ; as, for ex
ample, Achilles, when he relents, when he dies
for his concubine, when another gets drunk, and
many other things of the sort. He requires there
fore the remedies against these things. How is
it not absurd to send children out to trades, and
to school, and to do all you can for these ob
jects, and yet, not to
"
bring them up in the
chastening and admonition of the Lord
"
? And
for this reason truly we are the first to reap the
fruits, because we bring up our children to be
insolent and profligate, disobedient, and mere
vulgar fellows. Let us not then do this ; no,
let us listen to this blessed Apostle s admoni
tion.
"
Let us bring them up in the chasten
ing and admonition of the Lord." Let us give
them a pattern. Let us make them from the
earliest age apply themselves to the reading
of the Scriptures. Alas, that so constantly as I
repeat this, I am looked upon as trifling ! Still, I
shall not cease to do my duty. Why, tell me, do
ye not imitate them of old? Ye women, espe
cially, emulate those admirable women. Has a
child been born to any one? Imitate Hannah s
example (i Sam. i. 24) ; look at what she did.
She brought him up at once to the temple.
Who amongst you would not rather that his son
should become a Samuel than that he should be
king of the whole world ten thousand times
over? "And how," you will say, "is it possible
he should become such a one?" W
T
hy is it
1 Fathers were very suspicious in St. Chrysostom s day of the in
fluence of Christianity tending to make their children monks. In
consequence of this prejudice against the monastic life, he wrote his
Adv. OJ>pugn. Man. Vit.- TOI; /COO>IKCHS. 3 oyoA/ma.
not possible ? It is because thou dost not choose
it thyself, nor committest him to the care of those
who are able to make him such a one.
"
And
who," it will be said, "is such a one as this?"
God. Since she put him into the hands of God.
For not even Eli himself was one of those in
any great degree qualified to form him ; (how
could he be, he who was not able to form even
his own children?) No, it was the faith of the
mother and her earnest zeal that wrought the
whole. He was her first child, and her only
one, and she knew not whether she should ever
have others besides. Yet she did not say,
"
I
will wait till the child is grown up, that he may
have a taste of the things of this life, I will
allow him to have his pastime in them a little in
his childish years." No, all these thoughts the
woman repudiated, she was absorbed in one
object, how from the very beginning she might
dedicate the spiritual image
3
to God. \Vell may
we men be put to the blush at the wisdom of
this woman. She offered him up to God, and
there she left him. And therefore was her mar
ried state more glorious, in that she had made
spiritual objects her first care, in that she dedi
cated the first-fruits to God. Therefore was her
womb fruitful, and she obtained other children
besides.
4
And therefore she saw him honorable
even in the world. For if men when they are
honored, render honor in return, will not God
much more, He who does this, even without
being honored ? How long are we to be mere
lumps of flesh? How long are we to be stoop
ing to the earth? Let everything be secondary
with us to the provident care we should take of
our children, and to our
"
bringing them up in
the chastening and admonition of the Lord."
If from the very first he is taught to be a lover
of true wisdom, then wealth greater than all
wealth has he acquired and a more imposing
name. You will effect nothing so great by
teaching him an art, and giving him that out
ward learning by which he will gain riches, as if
you teach him the art of despising riches. If
you desire to make him rich, do this. For the
rich man is not he who desires great riches, and
is encircled with great riches ; but the man who
has need of nothing.5 Discipline your son in
this, teach him this. This is the greatest riches.
Seek not how to give him reputation and high
character in outward learning, but consider
deeply how you shall teach him to despise the
glory that belongs to this present life. By this
means would he become more distinguished and
more truly glorious. This it is possible for the
4
[On the authority of three MSS., Savile and other editors con
curring, we have departed here from the text of Field, which reverses
the order of this and the following sentence, and leaves the sense less
clear, v. i Sam. ii. 21. G. A.J
6
[This reminds one of the saying of Socrates: To want nothing
belongs to the gods, and to want as little as possible is to make the
nearest approach to them. G. A.]