Chapter 18.—Of the Shame Which
Attends All Sexual Intercourse.
Lust requires for its consummation
darkness and secrecy; and this not only when un
lawful
intercourse is desired, but even such fornication as the earthly
city has legalized. Where there is no fear of punishment, these
permitted pleasures still shrink from the public eye. Even where
provision is made for this lust, secrecy also is provided; and
while lust found it easy to remove the prohibitions of law,
shamelessness found it impossible to lay aside the veil of
retirement. For even shameless men call this shameful; and though
they love the pleasure, dare not display it. What! does not even
conjugal intercourse, sanctioned as it is by law for the
propagation of children, legitimate and honorable though it be,
does it not seek retirement from every eye? Before the bridegroom
fondles his bride, does he not exclude the attendants, and even the
paranymphs, and such friends as the closest ties have admitted to
the bridal chamber? The greatest master of Roman eloquence says,
that all right actions wish to be set in the light,
i.e
.,
desire to be known. This right action, however, has such a desire
to be known, that yet it blushes to be seen. Who does not know
what passes between husband and wife that children may be born?
Is it not for this purpose that wives are married with such
ceremony? And yet, when this well-understood act is gone about
for the procreation of children, not even the children themselves,
who may already have been born to them, are suffered to be
witnesses. This right action seeks the light, in so far as it
seeks to be known, but yet dreads being seen. And why so, if not
because that which is by nature fitting and decent is so done as to
be accompanied with a shame-begetting penalty of sin?